The man doesn't want to be sexual 24/7, so this means something is wrong with him and he's oppressing women. Imagine inverting the genders here.

CawlinAlcarz · 2022-09-16T19:50:29+00:00

If the roles in this story were reversed, do you think you'd see this comment:

But that aside, he is denying you status as a full human with sexual desires. You can't want sex, only he can want sex, and then sex can only be on his terms.

That's both controlling and demeaning to you - he has sexual rights that you can't have. It is completely unjust that you have no ability to try and initiate sex.

This requires a discussion about why he doesn't see you as an equal and as others said, perhaps some kind of counseling.

Effective_Alfalfa360 · 2022-09-17T03:05:16+00:00

The problem wasn't the actual post. It was the comments from the post shaming the guy for having a low sex drive. The post itself didn't seem like it came from a place of hate, but a place of frustration and wanting to know what to do about their situation. She wants to know if there's something that SHE is doing wrong in the relationship. She isn't shaming her boyfriend, the commenters on that post are the ones shaming.

SilentObserver1293 · 2022-09-16T20:31:38+00:00

Something isn't quite right in some heads of people especially woman here. There are man out here with low testosterone naturally who doesn't want sex 24/7 because they know how meaningless this is and want something else in life. What's the matter? Ah yeah. It doesn't fit the narrative of all man are predators and rapist because of this one dude here in the article.

Like I said it many times, there are two kinds of man and two kinds of woman. Not all man are wrong of defective for not wanting sex or something even with a woman and no one is saying if woman are doing the same to man so why bother? Instead they look for new reasons to shut man down. That's a prime example of narcissistic nature and the look for a enemy to fit their narrative.

Environmental_Rest84 · 2022-09-16T22:49:24+00:00

What the wife here seems to he forgetting is that if he isn't inerested in having sex, and does it anyway because she want's to. He's been pressured into it, meaning there is no consent, amd she is essentially raping him.

Educational_Bet_6606 · 2022-09-16T18:33:07+00:00

Society has gone Loco.

NetNeutralitee · 2022-09-16T19:38:39+00:00

Being angry at your wife and calling her vulgar because she said ‘fancy a shag’ is not the same as ‘not wanting to be sexual 24/7’

DisposableChief · 2022-09-17T00:28:11+00:00

Banned for no reason

I was instantly banned as soon as I joined this sub. Does anybody know why?

I hadn’t even commented on this yet and I got banned. Are the mods just on a power trip or do they have a serious problem with this sub? And why?

Here’s the link: https://imgur.com/a/UT9fwiH

HannibalsProtege · 2022-09-16T20:48:16+00:00

Pretty sure this would be a STARK contrast from the article the Daily Mail posted about. But then again.....maybe not 🤔

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/xdxare/is_your_partner_a_sex_pest_many_women_are/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

wormzeater · 2022-09-16T18:45:15+00:00

The man doesn't want to be sexual 24/7, so this means something is wrong with him and he's oppressing women.

That's not even remotely what was said in the post you linked. She certainly never suggested he's "oppressing women".

As for inverting the genders, I for one would feel awful for anyone, man or woman, who is in a situation like this. In fact, I've been in a similar situation myself before. It's not nice to feel like your partner doesn't find you as attractive as you do them.

HikuroMishiro · 2022-09-16T20:44:24+00:00

Sorry, I don't think this is a relevant issue here.Based on the post, the guy was the one being overly sensitive. I'm sure there's a lot of misandry in the comments and maybe someone there is making that claim, but just based off the post it has nothing like your post title.

UnfurtletDawn · 2022-09-16T20:41:54+00:00

How did you even came to the conclusion.

The whole issue is that he doesn't like when she acts sexually and that only he can act sexually. That is a problem.

umenu · 2022-09-17T09:52:38+00:00

Did you read the comments section? Everybody is making fun of her, so I imagine a guy would also be ridiculed. It's kinda funny this is a men's rights page and I already read 4 posts about what if the roles were reversed? And then share examples about females completely being burned in the comment section.

I mean...do really want to treated like that and being ridiculed? What's the point of this?

Foxsayy · 2022-09-17T09:12:55+00:00

The post got deleted. No idea what was there.

Drayenn · 2022-09-17T00:14:45+00:00

I think the main issue here isnt thst he has low libido, its that hes ridiculing and slut shaming his wife for her advances... But you guys seem to be ignoring this point.

Aggravating_End_7010 · 2022-09-16T19:23:06+00:00

Something is wrong with you if you don't want to have sex with your significant other no matter the gender.

michaelklr · 2022-09-16T19:01:27+00:00

You mean inverting the sexes, biologically speaking.

AcidKritana · 2022-09-17T08:22:58+00:00

Sometimes I don't want sex. Sometimes my partner doesn't want sex. If you don't want sex, lady, it's CALLED SOMETIMES YOU'RE ASEXUAL GROW UP

Title	The man doesn't want to be sexual 24/7, so this means something is wrong with him and he's oppressing women. Imagine inverting the genders here.
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Date	September 16, 2022 6:29 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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