Men is more likely to choose a girl by her physique since men are more visual, it's in their nature to be more interested in face , ass and tits in general. So they should work to not fully be interested in that and get interested in values, personality, Green/red flags, etc . Women are less interested in physique whereas more interested in men with MONEY mainly, status, and power in general. So they SHOULD work in not being too interested in that kinda stuff and be more interested in ACTUALLY liking his partner.(personalitie, physique, values, etc) and not being too interested in money status n power. I think both men and women SHOULD work on that.

Also, i often see women justifying their gold digger behaviors by saying a false analogy saying: Men are interested in physique so why is it wrong for women to be interested in money and status? That's a false analogy since everyone should be interested in physique, and NOBODY should be looking for mainly money/status reasons in their partner that's fucked up.

What are your thoughts on this , i honestly feel women have to work more on this than men since we as men have no problem dating a broke or no status girl, we can build everything up together, whereas women want a same-line or high-line men even when they don't have the same thing to offer they always want same or higher.