From a utilitarian perspective, is polygamy the best option as a dating structure?

RatDontPanic · 2022-09-01T13:53:45+00:00

The fuck? Hell no it's the worst option ever.

shreyastalpade · 2022-09-01T12:44:16+00:00

It's best for desirable men and all women.

Necessary-Worry1923 · 2022-09-02T00:36:33+00:00

Nihilist, polygyny is already happening even outside Mormon cults in Utah. Rich guys like Elon Musk and Leonardo DiCaprio are swimming in an excess of female sex partners who can't wait to get their turn to hop on their carousels and ride the horsey. Elon even had a threesome with Cara and Amber. Talk about polygyny with 2 hot females. https://www.google.com/amp/s/pagesix.com/2020/06/17/johnny-depp-amber-heard-had-threesome-with-cara-delevingne-and-elon-musk/amp/

Only rich and famous men can have this privilege. Lower class dudes are going to suffer a woman drought.

However as the women age and their sexual value decreases they end up settling for Mr. GOODENOUGH Ala Lori Gottlieb. In their prime women are hypergamous seeking out rich and famous men, racking up high body counts.

When they age and decline, they realize they have to settle. They assume HYPOGAMY after hitting the wall just so they can have a family. Their monogamy phase has begun, and they scramble in their friendzone to find some loser Beta Orbiter who will wife them up.

boomershack · 2022-09-02T09:32:47+00:00

polygamy is already happening and is natural when society is breaking apart. Most (not all) women would rather share a man than be with an average dude or alone.

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-09-02T12:13:08+00:00

Polygamy already happening just without permission of their partner.

BoogersAndSugar · 2022-09-01T16:16:37+00:00

Frankly, it's not going to be a blood bath.

Most undesirable men are low testosterone, fat and pacified with porn and games. Polygamy is already happening. Low value men just hide and placate themselves with illusions.

My prediction, is men will opt out of society. The tax base is heavily reliant on men working, so the government will collapse.

Women will lose faith in both men and government and be drugged with anti-depressants, while the birth rate plummets.

A new nation will either emerge from the ashes after the collapse, or another nation will take over without much resistance.

Silver_Took32 · 2022-09-01T11:56:47+00:00

I think the correct word is polyamory but your use of polygamy betrays your actual intent.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2022-09-02T07:28:40+00:00

is polygamy the best option as a dating structure?

The question is, best option for who?

For average to low status men? It would suck. The bottom 10% who don't get shit now? Wouldn't affect them. But Joe average would not be able to get anywhere near the type of woman he could under an enforced monogamy situation.

For lower status women they would be able to have access to higher status men.

Higher status men would have access to more women.

Ultra high-status women might be negatively effected but not nearly as badly as low to medium status men. A top-tier woman might be able to enforce monogamy but Ultra Chad likely won't put up with it.

I run a soft-harem now - they know about each other - and assuming I wanted to, I could move as many of them in as I could afford. It's not complicated. High status men (whether based on looks, game or $) are only limited in this by their $ and that they may not get every woman they want to agree to it.

RealNiceLady · 2022-09-01T17:13:07+00:00

If men don't even like Chad getting more sex than them, how would they feel if that situation was made permanent through marriage?

Title	From a utilitarian perspective, is polygamy the best option as a dating structure?
Author	Antisocial_Nihilist
Upvotes	3
Comments	43
Date	September 1, 2022 10:15 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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