This man just wanted to check that he wasn't going to kiss someone underage

RockmanXX · 2022-12-20T19:56:17+00:00

Meanwhile, teen Justin biber got sexually assaulted by an old woman and everyone laughed.

Ok-Translator2294 · 2022-12-20T19:30:07+00:00

Doomed if you do, doomed if you don't. Life of men

Mr_SH_and_his_pet · 2022-12-20T19:30:49+00:00

People in an alternate universe where he didn’t check age: “Why didn’t he check her age, she could have been a minor, stupid incel!”

arrouk · 2022-12-20T19:30:36+00:00

Of course, he's being slammed.

How can he be accused of wrongdoing when he's covering his ass like this.

There was a boy band in the 90's was known for checking id's before groupies were let back stage, to protect themselves from accusations

jva21 · 2022-12-20T19:59:14+00:00

Will never know what they actually want

ramao__ · 2022-12-20T21:39:54+00:00

They'll find any reason they can to hate on man. Still, it's better to be slammed for age checking than going to prison.

BobbingForBunions · 2022-12-21T00:12:54+00:00

I suspect a large percentage of complainers are women far older than 22.

jthablaidd · 2022-12-21T01:17:07+00:00

So if they check for age it’s bad

If they don’t check it’s bad

Being a man in todays world is a lose lose game

Academic-Ad6236 · 2022-12-20T20:53:25+00:00

Hooked up with a Canadian and they used the term ‘snogging’ as well like the caption. Is that a unique Canadian term for kissing?

BeckyLynchIsBetter · 2022-12-21T01:23:27+00:00

And he's getting shit for it. We men can't win. Had he not asked for ID and she was underage, he'd be buried. Yet he asked for identification, and he's still getting shit on. Lmao.

OptimalAsteroid · 2022-12-21T02:06:35+00:00

Gentlemen, if she looks too young, she probably is. Don't hesitate to check their ID. You could be saving yourself from a lot of trouble. Females won't think twice about crying rape or sexual assault if they wanted to. Stay safe out there.

SuperSupremeKai · 2022-12-21T01:55:47+00:00

It seems people want to take them down regardless. If he did this without the checks and confirming consent they would have went the other way and said:

"Celebrity takes first kiss of fan by force!" or "Under-aged girl kissed by celebrity in shocking revelation."

_angeoudemon_ · 2022-12-21T04:11:41+00:00

This just reeks of bitter jealousy from other women to me. Who the hell would have a problem with this?

MustardWendigo · 2022-12-21T06:46:10+00:00

Ugh now we can't accuse him of molesting a teenager waaah

JollyFawn90 · 2022-12-20T21:34:34+00:00

There actually a post on blatantly misogyny where pierce Bronson is support his wife. And the amount of backlash on there is insane

One of the most upvoted comments is from a user with the title: blue haired leftist feminist and misandry.

They have lost the ability to see the good in people and are just full off hate and anger. They just spreading drama even if something is good. They are the exact equivalent to the men on incel forums who just spread hate and talk shit.

Toxic people

Paladin2903 · 2022-12-21T12:00:03+00:00

As a guy in this current era, you’re damned if you do anything and damned if you don’t. This is why I just keep to myself and stay indoors as much as possible. This country is a fucking open-air mental asylum.

BiriyaniMonster · 2022-12-21T07:35:04+00:00

IMO He should have denied to that request.

Langland88 · 2022-12-21T09:41:55+00:00

Of course he is going to get slammed. It seems like no matter what you do, you can't win. The people slamming him for an age check are just looking for something to complain about. But what this guy did was smart. He's doing what is very similar to what Keanu Reeves does with when fans request a picture. The difference is that Keanu Reeves clearly never lays a finger on his fans whereas Matt Healy did kiss this this girl, but he still have many legal legs to stand on since he checked ID, and she gave the consent and made an informal but legal contract with Matt. Honestly, I don't see anything that Matt Healy here that was illegal of should be considered illegal.

PatysRozrabiaka · 2022-12-20T20:46:10+00:00

But why did he actually kiss her?

Saelaird · 2022-12-21T08:52:16+00:00

I engage with women in the world as little as humanly possible as it's genuinely possible for a man's life to be ruined by a false metoo accusation.

Men need to protect themselves in every possible way during all interactions with women.

In both the workplace and in their personal lives, I recommend that men make use of video footage, signed documentation, audio recordings... whatever it takes to ensure their interactions with women are monitored and formalised.

Maleficent-Stress113 · 2022-12-21T09:51:58+00:00

Feminist here, and genuinely don’t see any problem, thought this was actually pretty respectful but ok 😂

gayscrossing · 2022-12-20T20:43:35+00:00

Nobody in their right mind would actually slam him for doing the very minimum to protect himself and others. Y’all are so angry for no goddamn reason. One day you’re going to be lying in your deathbed as the world goes on and you’re going to wish you hated a little less and loved yourself a little more.

beckabunss · 2022-12-21T15:38:56+00:00

Idk, the checking isn’t really a problem. I guess it more the culture around older men and younger women, and the idea that maybe if the law allowed men to be with even younger women then 18 they would.

Sephirahl · 2022-12-21T04:08:34+00:00

It's only weird that he checked consent because he is part of the group that these road blocks aren't meant for... Those rules are for the "average losers"

kaboomaster09 · 2022-12-21T05:47:29+00:00

It’s hard to say without sounding like pedophile, but sometimes people who are underage really do not look it. Like genuinely checking id before getting funky wit it is a good idea.

Dandyman-GM · 2022-12-21T06:37:17+00:00

Slammed by who that matters? This is just safe practice in this day and age.

GuntherGoogenheimer · 2022-12-21T16:42:24+00:00

They have a problem with it because for them, unfortunately he didn't end up behind bars. They're a sad and pathetic excuse of human beings that need to be heavily medicated.

tuxedoedsoup · 2023-01-07T15:47:43+00:00

i don’t think feminists have an issue with this. if anything, i think even more dudes should be checking ages before making moves like that

Title	This man just wanted to check that he wasn't going to kiss someone underage
Author	reddyitz
Upvotes	643
Comments	65
Date	December 20, 2022 6:37 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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