Why do some girls seem to defy the concept of hypergamy??

replicaplater · 2017-09-22T19:02:59+00:00

Relatively speaking 6-6.5 isn't exactly in a position to get a high SMV male. Obviously attraction factors in this, as well as if the guy has money(they usually do). Some girls also just get pleasure/ego validation in taking on "project guys," ones they can manipulate to their whims, most higher SMV guys aren't going to go along with that program.

MattyAnon · 2017-09-22T22:59:44+00:00

Why does she not feel compelled to pursue a higher SMV man?

What makes you think she isn't? Have you seen her Tinder / secret facebook messages/phone/behaviour in bars and clubs?

GreenPiller · 2017-09-22T23:08:25+00:00

Look around. There aren't that many Chads, not only that, most of them just pump and dump. Seriously go to a store or a supermarket and try finding a Chad. Most people are just average.

chachaChad · 2017-09-22T19:16:16+00:00

He’s her best option at the moment.
You can't what she considers his redeeming qualities because you're not her.
Women will sometimes prioritize safety over Chad-like qualities if they have been hurt or afraid of being hurt by Chad.

throwawayantman · 2017-09-22T19:18:40+00:00

You don't know how disgusting she is

pentakiller19 · 2017-09-22T20:19:57+00:00

Not all women are the same. Just like not all men are the same. People are different. TRP works on the vast majority of women but it will never work on all of them.

zayelion · 2017-09-22T19:19:18+00:00

Hypergamy is fueled by insecurity. He's lower status he isnt gonna run off no one is going to steal him, she is secure. If she is financially fit on her own hes effectively a puppy to her.

Its not always looks, and finances, its also game, power dynamics, and emotional security that are "ups" women balance, men to.

blimp11 · 2017-09-22T19:54:01+00:00

Insecurity. She feels safe, and is afraid of abandonment herself. You are only seeing the highlight reel of what's portrayed too.

[deleted] · 2017-09-22T23:25:48+00:00

It wouldn't be socially acceptable and politically correct to admit to herself and others that a man who is better than her in many ways is what gives her tingles. It is like us not being allowed to say that 98% of our attraction to women is based off of whether or not she has a nice ass, big tits and a pleasing face because the possibility of us losing our reputation because of it is real.

Terribledragon4Hire · 2017-09-22T23:57:17+00:00

Low self esteem. He is the best she can get in her eyes.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2017-09-23T00:35:47+00:00

to be perfectly honest, why do you care?? Is your goal to get a 6? I wouldn't worry about a sample of 1. Most women are not doing this. move on. GL.

mushroom_overlord · 2017-09-23T01:45:13+00:00

No model works in all cases. Most women adhere to hypergamy but sometimes they just do something unpredictable.

FilthMonger85 · 2017-09-23T03:04:59+00:00

You're taking a woman on face value. Just because she posts that she is happy with her beta doesn't make it true...

Title	Why do some girls seem to defy the concept of hypergamy??
Author	College_Moe
Upvotes	22
Comments	21
Date	September 22, 2017 6:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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