The judge already refused the ex parte motion but it’s still going to a hearing. In it ex made some weak claims that I’m harming the kids because we live in an RV. Ex bought the RV for us all to live in last year before divorce was happening. Now ex wants to get kids to move into house with her where she moved in another state after she decided she didn't want to live in RV months ago. She just left one day and told me she was going back to her home town. Can the judge order anything (I have to move closer to ex, since we live in an RV and can) or can they only consider what ex asked for (remove kids from my custody based on the harm of their living situation and move them in with ex)?

Ex also said since I live near the border I am planning to run away to Mexico with kids. Her motion reads that I have been "teaching kids spanish and am planning to hide with them in Mexico" but she leaves out that I was teaching kids Spanish since back when I was changing their diapers, we all were learning Spanish, and they have been taking Spanish in school since pre-K.

I do have a lawyer and we filed responses to the TRO. THe judge didn't sign it but still scheduled a hearing next month.