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I got a court order to pay daycare+ child support

bestdadever1 · 2013-07-30T16:09:30+00:00

The jude is making me pay for daycare and child support, $300 each. Total of 600 a month and I make 1,400 a month. Is this normal or were mistakes made? Please...

bestdadever1

July 30, 2013

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Title	I got a court order to pay daycare+ child support
Author	bestdadever1
Upvotes	19
Comments	67
Date	July 30, 2013 4:09 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1jct70/i_got_a_court_order_to_pay_daycare_child_support/
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So... lets say your assertion that the minimum to raise a single child is 1100 a month based on federal minimum wage is a crock. Be cause its a shitty assertion. Now you change and deflect.

To answer your question: Depends on the age of the child and some other factors. My child can be done for less than 400 a month and ive never spent more than 250-300 at worst when we initially had her, now shes even less as she grows, and that amount got her anything she ever needed and more. The only real costs are feeding and clothing as you already house your self and pay taxes for public education. Sure there is always odd costs for odd items like presents, but its a small car payment, and I dont even try to save coupons so my 300 a month can be done for less and I have seen it done.

You already house. Thus my point about you simply writing the dumbest shit ever.

You arent even in the ballpark of reality and your assertions even if they were are a joke.

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This place is so predictable. Some of you are the sheeple I always hear reference made to.

It's no different than feminists in some ways. No matter what you say or how factual it is , if it goes against the ideology of the movement , it cannot be left untouched.

Six hundred a month is NOT that much if you're also including rent. I'm not saying that it's right in this case or that it's necessarily fair. I'm simply pointing out (again for the dullards in the back apparently) that rend alone for the average apartment in most of the northern part of North America is likely to be well above 600 a month. As such , even if you only tack on half of the rent as part of the support order , that's still 300. That's minimal.

The idea is that you're not supporting the caretaker of the household but rather paying your half of whatever it costs to provide your kid(s) with a roof over his/her/their head(s). Sure , in theory the guardian should have a place of their own already but they wouldn't need as large a place as they will if they didn't have a kid to house as well. Ergo , you get stuck paying for half of the difference between a single bedroom apt. and a two or three bedroom deal.

Fuck , you can't even explain things to people around here without getting the "concern troll !" downvote shit.

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