Am I missing something by not having snapchat or instagram?

trp_driver · 2017-10-31T01:36:27+00:00

Get a snapchat. Girls use it like texting.

DanielPerfect · 2017-10-31T13:24:26+00:00

I don't give a fuck how useful social media is for getting pussy. I refuse to spend time on those time-wasting depressing shitholes.

Kuisco · 2017-10-30T21:57:11+00:00

You need to be cool enough to have a "looks and status" portfolio. In college, girls fuck the cool frat guys because they do cool things like parties and have status because they are greek. Now, if you are in a frat, get an insta. All frat guys have to do is "slide into her DMs" and she will fuck him. Sorority sluts are easier to get than getting a condom from the pharmacy if you are in a frat. If you are a normal person, what the frat guys call a GDI, you are better off staying in the dark. If you have an insta that shows you as a loser, you won't get any girls. You stay in the dark and then you go for the pull. If you are GDI, go for non-sorority girls. You instantly decrease the odds of getting STDs and also of getting a bad reputation among the frat guys for taking a thot out on a date.

aDrunkenWhaler · 2017-10-31T01:41:26+00:00

No. Fuck those time wasting shitholes. Especially if you want them to pick up women.

tacko276 · 2017-10-31T00:39:20+00:00

Nope fuck that shit. Don't want don't need it

neopet · 2017-10-31T02:43:27+00:00

Snapchat: Just for messaging girls, sure use it.

Instagram: Depends on what you're doing with your life. If your hobbies match the format it can boost your SMV (photographer, skateboarder, snowboarder, frequent traveler).

Peter_B_Long · 2017-10-31T00:00:07+00:00

Don't have a snapchat so won't pretend to have advice on that.

I do have an IG and have drastically improved my status on it in the last few months after I dumped my LTR.

IG is cool in many ways. You get recommended people to follow based on who you already follow (hit up friends of girls) and they're close to your area (95%) of the time. It's pretty much 100% of the time because whenever I ask a girl where she lives and she doesn't live near me, it is because she JUST moved away.

The hardest part is getting followers. It's basically a rule that if you have more people following you vs you following people it means you're cool. If you have 500 followers but follow 600, it doesn't look cool. If you have 800 followers and only follow 200 people, it displays good value because a lot more people follow you than you follow people.

Probably the best method I used for getting lots of girls to follow me without increasing my "people I follow" count is to follow a bunch of girls that you potentially want to meet up with. Have your profile private that way they're forced to follow you to see you're info. Then I message the girl with something like, "hey nice pics" or whatever. Most of them don't reply I'll be honest. Girls who don't reply after a couple of days I'll unfollow, but most of them will keep following you. If you add and message 5 girls a day and then unfollow them a few dates later, that's 5 potential followers for you profile (most of them follow me back).

I also ask people for their instagram whenever I meet them. It's much more comfortable for a girl to give her IG info than her phone number. You can always just message her on IG later and get her number through there. Even guys I'll ask for their IG to keep in touch with them and for the follower count.

I gotta go but message me if you want more tips, I can let you know what photos you should have to maximize your profile value and be really attractive with triggers through photos.

Update: u/_MysticFox There are 5 attraction triggers that make women get tingles for you. You should be incorporating these 5 triggers into the real you in any way you can, that way girls automatically sense these triggers on you without you applying effort. When it comes to social media, you can display these 5 triggers in your photos to maximize your attractiveness in your profile.

These are the 5 triggers and how you can show them in your pictures.

1 Preselection

The most important one. Preselection shows that you're attractive to other women. If a girl sees that you have value for other women, she will assume that you have value for her.

• Post a picture of you surrounded by women (the higher on the HB scale, the better). If you use IG stories, post hot girls on there.

2 The Leader of Men

This one is self explanatory. Women love leaders.

• Post a picture of you with other guys (preferably guys who look cool and put together) looking like you're the leader or the center of attention. You can do this by being in the center of the photo.

3 Protector of Loved Ones

Women are attractive to a man who is capable of protecting them and care for them. You want to show that her life will improve if she has an alignment with you.

• Picture of you doing something masculine and badass will display this trigger. Examples are pictures of you lifting, doing a sport, or doing a martial art.

• If you want to show that you're caring, you can post a picture of you with a puppy or small animal.

4 Willingness to Emote

You want to show that you are capable of positive emotions and not a serious robot all the time (of course she does have to work for it). Women are emotional. Wonderful positive emotions attract them like bees to honey.

• Show emotion in your facial expression and body language. One of the best emotions is triumph.

• Don't have the same facial expression in every photo.

• Be lit from the inside (passionate and enthusiastic) so that it shows in your body language and micro expressions.

5 Successful Risk Taker

Show you have a direction in life. Show that you're going somewhere, living life on the edge, and challenging yourself to take risks to get there.

• Photo of you doing something most men would be afraid to do (sky diving, cliff jumping, etc.)

failingtheturingtest · 2017-10-31T01:48:12+00:00

You are missing out on being number 100 for a sheila who fucks every second bloke who responds to her snapchat. If you can get laid with anyone else, then you're simply better off.

DadOnDabs · 2017-10-31T03:01:09+00:00

Instagram: build a strong profile but don't get lost in the endless half naked sloots

Snapchat: use the story to your advantage and post cool shit you do. Use it for messaging sloots here and there.

Here is the catch. If you game a girl and go for number and she offers snap or Insta say no. She just wants more orbiters. However, if you feel like you don't have the connection yet for a number go for the snap and let her see your amazing life on your story.

tsargorgi · 2017-10-30T22:07:05+00:00

Yes, you 100% should start adapting and becoming comfortable wth social media. Follow Gary Vee on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat for free advice on how to use the mediums effectively. The world is only going to become more digital, and you'll be at an advantage financially/commercially if you are strong with the platforms.

Girls 100% notice your social media presence. It's a form of social proof that will complement your in-person game. Your in person game should be such that she's thinking about you and hanstering about you later on. Now, if she has your instagram, Snapchat, and Facebook to fawn over also while you're gone, that's great. You also can control a girl's hamstering/use dread better. Seeing a few girls? Add a snap to your story with one so the others see you're out having fun with a friend. Or just use it to show off the things you do to build the attraction. Show yourself doing fun things without her and she'll wish she was with you etc.

specialCupcake · 2017-10-31T02:29:03+00:00

Tinder.

varsityman · 2017-10-31T04:34:03+00:00

Yes. Snapchat story is the ideal logistic.

You tailor whatever you want her to see but don't actually send it to her. Guaranteed if she's at all interested she checks every one. 100%. It even has this nifty feature that shows you who's looked at it and in what order.

Also, for whatever reason, if you direct message or send snap, girls treat it as not casual and have less defense up than with regular texting.

Obviously there will be some variation on this based on age and geographic location.

RepostGhostCst2Cst · 2017-10-31T13:52:24+00:00

It's way easier to get a girls Snapchat than her number. I've used that route a few times to close

ConsumingImpulse · 2017-10-31T19:53:15+00:00

Instagram is fucking gay and can go fuck itself

PcpAndAcid · 2017-11-03T05:46:22+00:00

yes, girls use instagram like softcore porn

thefisherman1961 · 2017-10-31T02:21:37+00:00

I am very anti-social media but I do have a snapchat because sometimes girls want to use it to send nudes. The only things I ever send on them are shirtless selfies, dick pics, or some combination of the two

mrpoopistan · 2017-10-31T03:42:53+00:00

I'll argue in favor of using SnapChat and similar apps for messaging, but keep in mind their video and pic capabilities also make them attention solicitation pipelines.

That can be a problem, because there are chicks who just pound the attention seeking. That requires some game to handle.

I remember a girl I was dating about eight months ago who'd go full nuclear trying to get a shred of validation from me.

My personal style is pretty much to cut off the attention pipeline. I had that approach long before I read anything TRP. She went completely apeshit. We're talking deploying an impressive array of dildos and kink equipment relentlessly seeking attention. As in so fucking many I was literally running out of temporary storage space on my phone on a daily basis. I mean, there's blowing up someone's phone, and then there's literally blowing up someone's phone.

On the upside, depending on your current need to have a chick mindlessly blowing up your phone, you might see that as a net positive.

Title	Am I missing something by not having snapchat or instagram?
Author	Kuisco
Upvotes	25
Comments	31
Date	October 30, 2017 9:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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1 Preselection

2 The Leader of Men

3 Protector of Loved Ones

4 Willingness to Emote

5 Successful Risk Taker