In light of sexual accusations that recently went public from Hollywood, congress, music industry, I've found myself thinking about the state of relationship between men and women in the west. Seems like only now I understand how broken it actually is and how ignoring it may bring more abuse to the next generation than ever before. Here's what I've gathered, that I believe perpetuates the destruction of union between the genders:

  • Sexual freedom - encouragement to experiment with as many partners as you like is now considered a norm. Sex now is thought as dangers free activity, however it couldn't be further from the truth. Statistics show that people, who had many partners in the past are less happy and less likely to create a lasting marriage/relationship with another human being. Not to mention the possibility of getting STD's, causing unwanted pregnancy, etc. I believe it is one of the biggest factors that creates distrust among sexes. Also, with the invention of apps like Tinder, we now have statistics that show how most women who are in their prime years are no longer interested in men who can provide or care for their children. I've heard plenty of stories of women not thinking about the future, get pregnant with a man, who has looks, wit, etc. but has no future plans, no good job prospects, has little care or responsibility for his own actions. However, where women are excused of making horrible life choices, men are not so lucky. As with more irresponsible seek of sex, women have become more likely to accuse men of rape and the system completely supports their ability to do so, as rape can now be considered: woman not satisfied with sex, woman regretting having sex, woman getting drunk and having sex, etc. And this abuse of system is bad for real rape or sexual assault victims, creating distrust in the legitimacy of allegations. Marriage abolition or its reforms towards women hasn't made the situation any better either. Which paves soil for the next disaster:

  • Single parent households - the promiscuous and irresponsible behavior more times than not creates conditions for the parasitic single parent households, that I believe is the main factor to movements like third-wave feminism, the rise of welfare state, state's power, and generation of tyrannical women and castrated men. I know this, because I've been one of many men raised in such family and for a long time I have been plagued by the anger towards my father and complete despise of my own gender. If not for my uncles in the family and people like Stefan Molyneux or Jordon Peterson and ideas they've expressed, I very much would have been another feminist supporter with a massive guilt complex because I had them in my youth. Which leads to the next point:

  • Rise of feminism and state power - with the promiscuous behavior, single parent households the welfare state has put itself to full gear. Let's not beat around the bush and say what welfare state truly is - it's a system that awards failure and irresponsible behavior. The situation in black community is the best example as to what will plague the whole system if the welfare will be allowed to fester - fatherless homes, boys stained with self-hatred, raised by mothers who hate or distrust men, being used as a tool to abuse welfare and court system (that has been the case too many times). Which more times than not leads boys aimless, frustrated and without any guiding figure and many of them facing abuse as, statistically speaking, they are more likely to be abused in single parent households. Leading to more and more of them committing violence, illegal activities, forming gangs, etc. Men found in groups like Antifa give a good look at men, who were neglected by the system, I think many of them may have been raised in single parent household.

With the rise of feminism, the hate for men and boys or at least a complete neglect to their pain cannot be more obvious. Just to make it short, the documentary called "The Red Pill" shows how little society cares for the fact that men are way more likely to commit suicide, way more likely to die in work environment, are just as likely to be abused in relationships. The equality that is pushed by feminists make men obsolete in the eyes of society. Pushing law enforcement, military to commit to the equality agenda are just a few examples of complete disregard of differences between men and women in terms of basic biology. Not going after places like construction, infrastructure maintenance (electrical grid, sewage systems, water purification, etc.) gives a good look at the hypocrisy of these ideologues. Which leads to another catastrophe.

  • Men going their own way - being treated like dirt by society and women in general some men are deciding to either engross themselves into hedonistic lifestyle, going after the lifestyle of an "alpha" - having as much sexual encounters as possible or choose life of loneliness - this is not so much of a choice as more and more men are becoming denied of sexual market as more and more men cannot get higher education, are denied better pay or workplace because of employment programs like affirmative action, diversity quotasm etc. Friendzone has become something of a meme at this, point. Nice men, beta providers, have been contaminated with men, who are called by Jordon Peterson as sneaky, snake like people, who use their niceness and "support" just to spread women's legs, although that has made way more damage to the image of "nice guy". Nice men today are considered as cucks, white knights, feminist supporters, pussy whipped weak men without balls. When niceness in community is considered as not trustworthy or worthy characteristic, you know you've got a problem. I know plenty of men, who want to get married, have children and raise them to the best of their ability, only to get cockblocked by women for being too nice. Nice is not equal to weakness, and that is exactly what children need - a loving father, not an absent or god forbid a tyrannical father, who thinks that "Might makes right".

I would like to add, that with sexual freedom, the porn industry has been a plague on men's libido and has become a new addiction for the frustrated men. I just find it insane how people view this degenerating crap as a mostly positive thing. Movements like MGTOW, I consider to be anti-thesis of feminism, an opposite side of the same coin. Men in MGTOW groups are very frustrated with women, some going to extreme lengths to paint women as nothing more than resource hungry bitches, who will fuck with other men, whenever they gets a chance to cheat on you, take your child away, your house and leave you homeless somewhere in a ditch. This happens, sure, but I wholeheartedly believe this is accepted because the state and ideologues have been left to run rampant for far too long.

So, there you go, this is what I believe are the main factors that destroys the union of man and woman. I really don't have much to offer when it comes to solutions except one: to take responsibility. Do not commit to actions that are destroying morals you value just because the other party commits them. Lead by example. Because in the end, I think, it's not about us, it's about children who will have to take this weight of civilization to bear. And if what we show to them is only hedonism, only sophistry, if we fear to say truth or think it as inconvenient to our cause, then the cycle will continue, abuse will continue, the divide will continue.