Brown Beta Males

The south asian demographic have the most difficulty getting laid. There is no biological reason for this, no such thing as “deathnic”, as blackpillers would have you believe. There is no gene that prevents one from getting laid. Indeed there are brown guys getting plenty of puss. The issue with the ones that don’t is that they are still holding onto a defense mechanism they picked up from coping with their upbringing under strict parents: Evasion. Their evasiveness makes them ideal betas– they go with anything that is asserted onto them because they have a means of escape, and instead of asserting themselves onto others, they avoid any potential conflict. This causes a lot of problems in their life, their inability to get laid being just one of them. The more sheltered and enclaved the brown boi in question, the more evasive he is likely to be.

How did the brown beta come to be? The brown beta’s parents were overbearing. They themselves might have left the village, so to speak, but the village didn’t leave them. In a village it made sense to not disturb the peace. Furthermore, any problem would be further exacerbated by people talking about it. Some problems were better left unresolved, and certain things were better left unsaid– being outcasted wasn’t worth the risk. For better or worse, the village, and organic social structures in general, don’t exist anymore. At most, there are only surface level remnants of said structures. But despite that, many south asian parents act as if the opinion of the village matters, even if they know they are not in the village anymore. Their boy has to be intelligent, and grow up to be rich and high status. The parents’ demands for the brown boi were overbearing, and there was no room for argument. Any dissent is met with punishment, ceaseless nagging, or relentless shaming. The more strict the parents were, the less able the child was able to handle conflict and communicate assertively. There was no way to deal with such a situation without coping, and for our brown boi, the cope was evasion. The cope was just saying yes, but doing whatever he wanted behind his parents back. It’s not uncommon to meet a highly intelligent south asian who also is a heavy drug user. It’s very uncommon to meet a south asian man who isn’t hiding a lot from his parents.

Instead of overcoming those childhood defense mechanisms, the brown beta holds onto them even in adulthood. The years of avoiding conflict have made even the possibility of conflict too stressful to handle emotionally. Being trained to keep quiet has stunted their ability to express themselves. The habit of evasion has also made it difficult for others to trust them. If there’s an interpersonal problem, they keep quiet, and so the issue is left unaddressed until it becomes unbearable to keep quiet about it. Their behavior is only suited for some humpty dumpty Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi/Sri Lankan village that no longer exists, or for being an obedient wage-slave– it’s a model for failure everywhere else.

The only way an evasive brown beta is going to get someone to sit on his dick is if his parents arrange a marriage for him. Why? Because the process of getting laid, and the potential relationship that follows, is inherently something that requires conflict. When you approach a woman with the intention of doing the didily with her, you are changing the trajectory of her life and yours. She didn’t open up her schedule to just stand around until she can be approached and get laid. You have to get her to stop what she was doing, and change her plans, because she didn’t know about your existence until you actually made contact with her. You also have your own plans, you also have things that are likely to come up, but when you see someone you like you have to drop whatever for a moment and then go talk to her. So not only is there the potential verbal conflict of an approach that goes south, there is also the conflict that is inherent in destroying one’s emotional homeostasis.

Naturally, brown betas that try to get laid try to do so without the conflict, and so they do everything around getting laid, without getting laid. They will work on getting more money, they will buy nicer clothes, they will work on their social media, they will buy self-help books, etc. They’re secretly hoping that if they can do the work, that they will be able to get laid without having to assert themselves onto the world. Of course, this doesn’t work. What ends up happening is that the brown beta is stuck in a masturbatory loop where he keeps circling around his desires forever.

If you are a brown beta, or have the characteristics of one, what to do?

First off, you need to be aware of your evasiveness. You need to watch yourself avoiding conflict like the little beta you are. You need to know exactly what you feel the moment you decide to evade and how you do it. Most often, you aren’t honest with yourself and end up rationalizing away your behavior. Your evasion might just seem like a level-headed decision to put off an action to a more opportune time, or thinking something over instead of rushing into it recklessly. It’s not. You need to realize that you pick evasion first, and then rationalize it, not the other way around. Next, you need to throw yourself into conflict and break your established passive behavioral patterns. There is no other way around it. You need to act before you evade and rationalize. Walk into a gym, show up in a country where you don’t know anyone, talk to strangers, go try new activities, etc. There is no guide, no plan, no path, you simply receive some kind of desire and then rather than postponing it, you commit to it fully instantaneously and pursue it until success. Logistically, you need to get away from your parents. Environment matters, and staying in the same structure that conditioned you to be an evasive beta will not allow you to grow. Don’t re-enclave yourself with other brown betas that have the same problems as you. Go make friends with people of different backgrounds– people with whom you have no choice but to communicate clearly and assertively with, because they aren’t going to be able to understand passive-aggressive, avoidant, south asian beta communication styles. After you’ve unfucked yourself, help your fellow south asians unfuck themselves. Show them that they don’t have to be stuck being an evasive brown beta.

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