It is very controversial and it grows into the face of common decency but dating seems to be so broken and is that bad. As much as I hated men and women are biologically different. We are 95% similar but that 5% difference is so strong and proven just on how different our lives and experiences are as many women. Men's worst mistreatment comes from when they are viewed as underclass, weaklings or lacking in masculinity. Anytime you hear a guy talk about being rejected or bullied or looked at as weird or laughed at, it's usually because he is perceived as worthy of being made fun of which is so coded in masculinity and how we socially view it.

So many things women select and reject men based off of seem to be entrenched in traditional masculinity or could be tied back to it. Why do you think despite the fact that women making more money, that it is so a deal-breaker for a man to make less money? That's because even though we live in civilized times and on paper there shouldn't be anything wrong with the woman being the breadwinner, so many women still just find it to be unattractive if they make more money than the man. And I know it's not the question of the man caring because most men don't care about what type of money women make, but I do know it becomes a problem if the woman herself does not view her man is worthy if she makes more.

I work with mostly women and you should hear the stuff they say about short men and I don't take offense to to it but it's really telling because these same women would hate for a man to come in and comment about their weight. Most of this is human and I don't want anyone to police their own speech but you will learn a lot about a person and their psychology if they speak from the heart freely without fearing social restitution.

Unfortunately throughout history because there have been a number of men who was abused their inherent masculine power to hurt women, historically and biologically it makes sense for a woman to want to bag a strong man because. That strong man is the best bet not only protect her against other crazy men but also to ensure her survival

Even as a kid I always figured that the greatest components or pushers of toxic masculinity were women. Historically if men did not have to do crazy things like wage war to gather resources to attract women than they would do it. Way more complex than what I just stated but so many of our behaviors come from the psychosexual