"The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."

Howdoiusesync · 2019-03-11T23:42:19+00:00

Fast forward to mid 30s to 50s.

Most men that are married and raising kids aren't actively looking to stray. They are happy as pigs in shit for a starfish fuck once a week and a wife that isnt too much of a pain in the ass. Go read any newbie MRP post. These guys are miserable and barely know it except for the splinter in their brain

Women want nothing less than a vampire billionaire with a six pack. All her frenimes on social media better lust after this guy too. Otherwise, she either tosses him out and goes for cash and prizes OR she becomes a living hell to deal with as women despise weak men. Sex is negotiated if ever.

Playing the LTR game means you make her jump thru hoops or YOU will walk. This is what women want. They don't want to win, they want a winner

OutsideTheCage3 · 2019-03-12T00:16:30+00:00

Surprisingly accurate article. Noticed that they managed to sneak this little gem in though.

She has suggested more radical-seeming potential fixes, too, like opening up the marriage.

MSM, subtly normalizing cuckoldry since 2016.

disabledtrp · 2019-03-12T01:27:20+00:00

All the studies doesn't say if the husband (or the wife) maintain his physique after X amount of time in the relationship. Doesn't say if they become bored of the relationship itself too, why there was a change in the going out and the activities they have done together. Only kids are counted as variable. Is not that i don't believe it, but if any of this causes had an impact, is completely normal and is what we usually say here that is going to happen.

throwaway-aa2 · 2019-03-11T21:42:36+00:00

So.... both sexes have the same problem. Guys love new pussy. Girls love new dick. Bada bing, bada boom

Hombremaniac · 2019-03-11T23:11:15+00:00

Wanna have kids?

Why not skip right the fuck past the inevitable dead marriage/costly divorce/emotional turmoil needlessly inflicted on/money that is wasted and could be spent on the innocent children?

Just cut to the chase and plan for the two-household model you're likely to end up at anyway

Knock her up

Come up with a co-parenting plan

Get a paternity test

See your kids

Pay your child support

Stay on amicable terms with baby momma

Look how ahead of the curve you already are: mommy and daddy don't hate each other because they didn't wreck every inch of human respect for each other by shoehorning themselves into an unworkable sham! That's a unicorn kid right there!

Don't be jealous when she gets herself a new man who is more cohabitation minded; if you're doing it right, you'll be too busy fucking other women to care about that anyway

At the same time, since you haven't wrecked all shreds of mutual human dignity with baby momma, you can gently use your influence to steer her away from partners who are potential destructive influences on your child (drug abusers, molesters, whatever)

Lather rinse repeat die

OutsideTheCage3 · 2019-03-11T21:40:32+00:00

I have argued many times that men would have to be foolish to marry in today's climate, yet so many men seem to do so anyway. Total, unforced folly. The child support system is bad enough, without throwing marriage into it too.

Foobyx · 2019-03-11T22:09:34+00:00

"But Meana discovered that “institutionalization of the relationship, overfamiliarity, and desexualization of roles” in a long-term heterosexual partnership mess with female passion especially—a conclusion that’s consistent with other recent studies."

“Moving In With Your Boyfriend Can Kill Your Sex Drive” was how Newsweek distilled a 2017 study of more than 11,500 British adults aged 16 to 74. It found that for “women only, lack of interest in sex was higher among those in a relationship of over one year in duration,” and that “women living with a partner were more likely to lack interest in sex than those in other relationship categories.”

DicamVeritatem · 2019-03-12T05:11:02+00:00

As I read the article, I kept waiting for the word “hypergamy” to show up.

Will they ever get it?

farendsofcontrast · 2019-03-13T03:40:55+00:00

Men who run successful marriages or LTRs know that the key is to make women earn the sex. They set up a result-reward kind of system that facilitiates endless attraction.

They might not be having continous regular sex like people in hookup lifestyles but they are having much more exciting and fulfilling sex than the former.

Title	"The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."
Author	OutsideTheCage3
Upvotes	84
Comments	60
Date	March 11, 2019 9:39 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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