"Society hates single moms for raising their kids."

lonewolf86254 · 2023-03-20T06:46:00+00:00

The lead attorney on YouTube has talked about this more than once. Also Melissa Isaak is another attorney who has talked about this. System is tilted towards mothers, there are bad fathers out there but toxic mothers seem to get away with it due to how the system works.

jyORKb · 2023-03-20T03:58:05+00:00

More often than not the father didn’t just leave, he was pushed out because there’s a lot of women who turn basic coparenting into a massive power trip.

Unnecessary_Timeline · 2023-03-20T15:19:23+00:00

Also, so many of these single mothers are raising a kid that the father never consented to creating. Their birth control fails, or they lie about taking birth control, and then when the man expresses that he doesn't want to be father to a child with her, she goes off on her own. More often than not, they are single mothers because they selfishly decided to bring a fetus to term knowing that the father did not want it. This is what my aunt did to my cousin's father.

WA0SIR · 2023-03-20T15:48:43+00:00

Because most single mothers, Make terrible parents.

BLACKWINGSgocaw · 2023-03-20T20:50:59+00:00

It's not men that are failing as fathers. It's women that are fucking the fathers over. My brother in law was a hard working man with a job and was focused on building a life for his family. His baby momma was a lazy bitch and a drug addict. I'll let you guess which one had to fight for custody of the children.

sunzi23 · 2023-03-20T23:16:27+00:00

You mean the ones who married the state and kicked the father out of the home?

zaph239 · 2023-03-22T18:24:24+00:00

At the moment there is outrage in the UK because the government wants to make single mothers work. Feminists are very angry about this, which shows the truth about feminism and single motherhood. It isn't about empowerment, women going their own way. It is about making taxpaying men the breadwinner and fathers of last resort via the benefit system.

If women are too immature to pick men who will stay for the long haul and pick unreliable badboys. Why should I have to bail them out?

Harsimaja · 2023-03-24T18:19:23+00:00

So I actually do get where they’re coming from. There is a lot of judgement that comes with being a single mother, often unfair, and there are plenty of jokes around, even if it’s not their fault and they’re actually raising the kids.

On the other hand, assuming the fathers ‘failed as fathers’ is a bit rich too. Maybe. A lot are in prison, or just abandoned their kids, etc. But maybe not. A lot of the time the relationship failed for neutral reasons and the mother won’t let the father see his kids because the court system is extremely biased against dads - even if he’s desperate to. Sometimes the father died or is incapacitated. Sometimes the relationship failed because she cheated, or - at least in the past - maybe both parents were irresponsible and she just doesn’t know who the father is or got it wrong.

The problem is that in practice radical feminism tends to consider pregnancy and kids a burden that oppresses women (to be fair, they’re prone to consider everything from rubbers ducks to lunar eclipses oppressive to women), when most mothers actually (gasp) love their kids and want to be with them - as do (gasp again) most dads. Most radical feminists overwhelmingly paint this as unfair on the women because it can’t see babies as anything but parasites., when it’s very much a mix.

Man_Weird · 2023-03-31T16:16:22+00:00

I didn't understand

antifeminist3 · 2023-04-01T01:20:33+00:00

If a a woman abandon a baby using 'safe haven' laws, she is lauded for 'doing what is best for the baby'. If a man never wanted a baby 'he failed'.

This double standard is created by feminism and by the fact that only women choose whether to bring a baby into the world.

Critical_Mistake_315 · 2023-04-12T06:26:40+00:00

Bro single moms deserve so much more credit

Title	"Society hates single moms for raising their kids."
Author	Wild_Aioli
Upvotes	149
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Date	March 20, 2023 1:53 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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