This Resonated With Me Deeply

Twolipz_78 · 2021-02-07T14:58:36+00:00

THIS.

Quick story— I dated my LVX for 11 months. One day (about 8-9 months into our relationship) his mom added me on Facebook. I was looking at her pictures and she had pictures of my LVX with EVERY girlfriend he ever had. Omg. He seemed to have a new girlfriend every year!

Looking at those pictures was a reality check. This was during my PickMe days. I realized I had ignored so many red flags and started to connect the dots. I left him on the 11 month of our relationship.

atlanicus · 2021-02-07T21:53:38+00:00

“I can change him for the better!” Not gonna happen lol. and bonus points: he’ll try to change you for the worst

sassyheather · 2021-02-07T16:42:31+00:00

I kept changing them until I found the one that’s HVM so far.

MissCandid · 2021-02-07T16:08:05+00:00

Thank you!! I needed this as well.

sleeping_pretty · 2021-02-07T21:07:42+00:00

LVMs have left the chat.

Twolipz_78 · 2021-02-08T03:05:43+00:00

Hard to admit this used to be me... I would jump from guy to guy... putting myself through misery for what I called "love". Now I'm happily single and will be moving into my own place very soon. No roommates, no boyfriend, just me and my pets. Yes I changed myself, I am comfortable in my presence, maybe too comfortable. Dating is not appealing to me anymore.

ijustwannabefree- · 2021-02-07T23:21:20+00:00

100% this, sums up ALL the men I was with, obviously LVM,

Title	This Resonated With Me Deeply
Author	Twolipz_78
Upvotes	1335
Comments	17
Date	February 7, 2021 2:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lentql/this_resonated_with_me_deeply/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/this-resonated-with-me-deeply.1192657 https://theredarchive.com/post/1192657

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