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[–][deleted] 111 points112 points113 points 5 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
THIS.
Quick story— I dated my LVX for 11 months. One day (about 8-9 months into our relationship) his mom added me on Facebook. I was looking at her pictures and she had pictures of my LVX with EVERY girlfriend he ever had. Omg. He seemed to have a new girlfriend every year!
Looking at those pictures was a reality check. This was during my PickMe days. I realized I had ignored so many red flags and started to connect the dots. I left him on the 11 month of our relationship.
[–][deleted] 49 points50 points51 points 5 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
This is why I need to have at least a general overview of a guy’s dating history before committing. I think it’s even worse when there is a history of one night stands, and believe you me, some one night stand stories are much worse than others. Unfortunately, they will too often hide or lie about these stories.
[–][deleted] 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I wish we had a full Excel spreadsheet on their histories to be quite honest! LOL.
[–]Twolipz_78 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why, oh why didn’t I question when he told me “my relationships don’t last”? I should have left way before then, tbh.
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We’ve all been there, girl! What’s important is we know better now.
[–]eaucitron49 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Omg I found out the same thing about my ex when I went to his family’s place for Xmas the first year we met. This was like a trip halfway across the country so I, being the dumbass that I was, saw it as a big deal. Nope! He would just rotate through girls bringing them home to meet the parents after like no time at all. It made sense as to why they seemed sort of standoffish. They probably were like “well here we go again, wonder how long this one will last”
[–]CarpedictumFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TFW they all look exactly like you 😳
[–]atlanicus 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“I can change him for the better!” Not gonna happen lol. and bonus points: he’ll try to change you for the worst
[–]getrippeddiemirin 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“I can change him!!11”
Girl did he shit himself lmao
[–]sassyheatherPickmeisha™️ 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I kept changing them until I found the one that’s HVM so far.
[–]MissCandidFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!! I needed this as well.
[–]sleeping_prettyFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LVMs have left the chat.
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hard to admit this used to be me... I would jump from guy to guy... putting myself through misery for what I called "love". Now I'm happily single and will be moving into my own place very soon. No roommates, no boyfriend, just me and my pets. Yes I changed myself, I am comfortable in my presence, maybe too comfortable. Dating is not appealing to me anymore.
[–]Twolipz_78 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same here, currently in the process of accepting that being single isn’t a bad thing and working on myself for the first time ever in my life.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yay I'm proud of us.
[–]ijustwannabefree-FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% this, sums up ALL the men I was with, obviously LVM,
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