I was always my child’s primary care giver and did things with her before. When STBXW would tell me how tired and stressed she was I would try to help by letting her have the house to herself while me and my daughter would go to the park, museum or ikea to play hide and seek. Etc

Now that me and the wife have we have zero trust. Caused by me demanding full custody because I was the primary caregiver and her demanding child support even though I currently have my child slightly more then 50% of the time.

We agreed that we want 50/50 but nothing has been filed or signed yet. My attorney recommended not making any moves or instigating in any way. Because the longer I wait and the less she complains about the time disparity the better it will appear in court. And to just keep documenting everything.

However I feel bad because now when we do things together, me and my daughter. My first thought is about how easy will it be to document and how it will look to a judge. Instead of my daughter will LOVE that like I used to do before.