How effective is money really

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ThenIJizzedInMyPants · 2022-07-21T23:28:29+00:00

If you pursue money with the sole intention of 'getting' girls you're gonna attract a lot of gold diggers who will just use you for your money. If you're OK with that go for it. Or just rent hookers.

Personally I prefer to get money as a side effect of being really great at my profession and being motivated and ambitious in life in general + killing it in the gym. That attracts higher quality girls imo.

At the end of the day, male attractiveness is a combination of all factors - height, looks, money, muscles, leanness, status, etc. Play to your strengths

heeroena · 2022-07-21T23:50:42+00:00

Look at elon's latest shirtless pics and you tell me

5_7pickup · 2022-07-21T23:59:44+00:00

Make money for yourself, not for women. Trust me, using money to attract women wont end well.

hiktaka · 2022-07-22T00:05:30+00:00

I'll state it again and again; male attractiveness is pretty much a spider-web chart (or radar chart, precisely).

It's not that overcompensating on one aspect of attractiveness will suddenly drown you in pussies.

mabden · 2022-07-21T23:36:43+00:00

Expensive things attract expensive girlfriends. Should not be used to impress. Analogy: in writing, write to communicate, not to impress.

Gaining monetary wealth would do more for a dgaf attitude which is attractive on it's own.

videogames_ · 2022-07-22T00:07:22+00:00

While exceptions exist most people date and end up and settle in their own league. Most 5s end up with 4-6/10. Most 7s end up with 6-8/10. As a man the fortunate thing is you can bump your rating up 2-3 points with muscle, fitted clothing, and target selection (a sorority girl isn’t going to rate a rocker guy the same way as a frat guy even if objectively both men are the same looks wise).

Also your metrics you care about are wrong. Women like high value men so if you’re looks are a 5/10 but you’re the best musician in town and you’re eyeing the hottest 7/10 groupie town girl you’re gonna have a good time. If you’re 6/10 bartender and some 8/10 girl is pissed off about Chad but you’re literally the only available male in the whole bar at the time (it’s getting close to last call for example) you might have a chance too.

turbospeedsc · 2022-07-22T00:08:08+00:00

Money by itself wont attract them.

An affluent lifestyle will.

Boring guy with $10 million = no women.

Guy that gets there on kickass bike/car, coming back from the vacations on Hawaii, where he skydived and scuba dived with sharks= Women.

red_blood_cells · 2022-07-21T23:52:29+00:00

Yeah money is important so you can take her on vacations and fuck the shit out of her, but never lean on it or lead with it in dating, you will be a beta provider and she will use you as a bank while getting dick from another guy.

Try to make it so, when she first sees you, she things more of "wow strong arms" and less "wow deep pockets". You gotta make physical attraction the foundation of the relationship not money

CadBrastlerry · 2022-07-22T00:36:45+00:00

It’s important for sure. Even if you’re a complete ten, a significant amount of attractive females won’t look your way if you’re a societal loser. Unless you’re into tatted single moms with BPD.

The thing with money is, it’s not always about security or shit you can buy for her. If you’re a high earner, it’s speaks to your character and competence.

That being said, you’re way better off being a hard working and driven dude who makes an decent living, then a trust fund kid who came into his fortune.

One final note.. many guys with high net worths never know if the woman is really with them because of them, or because of his money.

2022-07-22T00:10:24+00:00

A 100K is not really enough for an 8 unless you are already good-looking and socially succesful enough to date 6s.

Age matters of course but dating succes also varies with age. That said I think you would need upper 1s. Like junior -- but not just out of school -- professional pay.

And, I guess to clarify it's not the money itself but the status level. You need to be a solid junior professional or other feuld equivalent to date 8s of you are otherwise a regular guy. Noting that yes an increasingly large portion of are well below regular guy status because fitness issues, autism, etc

shegotmass · 2022-07-22T01:07:47+00:00

Theres a lot of ugly basketball,rappers and nfl players with hot wives.

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