When I began to realize how delusional, paranoid, and manipulative my ex-wife was, I informed her of my intention to divorce. I hoped for an amicable separation and was willing to give her the house to move forward for the sake of our children. However, her scorpio-like nature led her to play the victim and obtain a TRO against me. Luckily, I had a recording device, which I highly recommend carrying during the divorce process. This evidence granted me my freedom and 50% custody of my kids. Never assume that an STBXW has moral values, never! ( I also took my 50% of the house). she didn't face any consequences and family law is a fucking scam! and waste of money!

Following her defeat in court and us losing everything to our lawyers, she resorted to trash-talking me and attempting to ruin my reputation with her family and flying monkeys in the community. She and her family post quotes and insinuations about me on social media. Initially, it hurt and tempted me to defend myself and expose her sociopathic behavior, but I decided to move on with my life and create a future with someone new. try to be successful on my own.

At this stage, I don't care about what my ex says or does. I'm not interested in proving how well I'm doing or making her jealous with my new partner. My life is kept a secret, and I have no urge to show off on social media. I'm focused on myself, my goals, and enjoying my life with my current partner.

and while While I love my current partner, I mentally prepare to move forward with my life if necessary, with no impact on my mental or emotional well-being. I have now this mind set that women comes and goes and Although I was torn between dating a young and fresh woman, I opted for someone my age who is moderately attractive, financially independent, and self-sufficient, reducing the risk of loss in case of divorce. However my new partner seem genuinely a good human being (at least of now)

Although I previously stated that I don't have any interest in my ex's life, at times, I can't help but wish for her to face the consequences of her actions and feel remorseful about being a terrible human being and a failure. I take comfort in the fact that my life is better without her.