Crosspost "Trying to get back with my ex-girlfriend but she fucked so many guys over the break." from /r/dating:

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up couple weeks ago because she wanted to find her self and wasnt sure she loved me anymore. I was obviously hurt because she suggest we break up out of the blue. I tried to get her back but she insisted I give her space.

Recently we have been hanging out as friends and she mentioned that she wanted to try with me again. Obviously I was interrested since I have been chasing her over the entire time she dumped me. However, I just learned that she fucked so many guys while we were broken up ( in less than a month). I couldnt believe it so I had to ask her but she refused to comment and said its the past and she was hurt and was trying to forget me ( she is the one that dumped me). It hurt me so much that I had to take some time to think about wether it is a good idea to get back with her. I cant make a decision because I am clouded with feelings and emotions for her but at the same time her new history bothers me.

Would I be wrong to take her back? Can it backfire in the future?

[UPDATE] Thanks alot for all the suportive ideas and suggestions in the comments. I blocked her and deleted all her contacts. I am going to focus on my healing process. Thanks alot again from the bottom of my heart!

Posted by Cobbler_Little | 27 April 2023 | Link