Can I buy a house, let her and the kids live there then kick her out when the kids go to college? Keep in mind that we are not married and will never be getting married, and will be living as co-parents and not romantic partners. I want the girls to have some semblance of a family life but will this make it worse or better? me around because I support us in our meager lifestyle and she wants a house, which she can't buy alone. I don't want to buy a house with her. But we both love our children immensely and don't want to be apart from them.

I also don't have the money to leave and support my girls in a new place or splitting up the time. Neither does the mother.

In a few years I'll have paid off some major debts and should be making about $65k a year. The mother will be making about $45k/yr. My plan is to leave then, buy my own house, have my kids and mother live there with me (the mother will be paying rent).

Can I buy a house, let her and the kids live there then kick her out when the kids go to college? Keep in mind that we are not married and will never be getting married, and will be living as coparents and not romantic partners. I want the girls to have some semblance of a family life but will this make it worse or better?