CMV: Girls aren’t really capable of wanting men for “who they are”, aka their looks

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-05-18T11:48:15+00:00

Removed for bad faith

Zestyclose_Truth9999 · 2023-05-18T11:02:56+00:00

Girls don’t think “I got what I wanted” after having sex

Speak for yourself. I wanted a partner that was hot AF, had the same kinks as I did, and was the proud owner of a 10/10 personality.

I got exactly what I wanted — and I wouldn't have settled for anything less.

eefr · 2023-05-18T10:38:25+00:00

I absolutely want men for sex. Much more than I want their money. I can support myself, but I can't fuck myself.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2023-05-18T10:34:47+00:00

I don’t use men for money, I was happily paying my own way when I met my now husband.

I was happy supporting us both when he was out of work for a while.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-18T10:40:05+00:00

I think I “got what I wanted” when I’m in a loving, caring relationship with a great sex life and lots of fun/enjoyment with each other. I don’t care what my partner earns as long as he lives within his means and is responsible with his money. Otherwise it makes no difference to me.

WanderingThoughts31 · 2023-05-18T10:43:11+00:00

I love my partner for who he is. When we were first getting to know each other I don’t think how much money he made even crossed my mind and it certainly wasn’t a factor of any kind.

4 and a half years down the line we’re mindful of money because, y’know, financial stability and building our future together. Very, very few women are solely focused on a man’s money and how it can benefit them alone.

Gravel_Roads · 2023-05-18T10:49:58+00:00

Sounds like you have really negative views of both men and women.

Girls don’t think “I got what I wanted” after having sex, they think “I got what I wanted” after using a guy for his money and he had no idea he got used lol

It’s the same in reverse for guys. Ideally they’d fuck most women but it’s too much work so they just fuck some.

Something tells me you won't be able to present any supportive evidence for this, considering you'd have to be Professor X to know what all people are thinking.

facts and evidence don't tend to change the views of people who rely on prejudice and bias, but refuting OP is as easy as pointing out the millions and millions of couples that are happy, where the woman isn't "using a guy for his money and he has no idea". Millions of women make MORE than their partners.

Meanwhile, there are also millions and millions of men (myself included) who wouldn't fuck "most women". Most people suck and it's unwise to entangle one's self with shitty people, as it's a waste of time and energy that are better spent doing something beneficial for the self. I'd literally rather do my dishes than fuck a shitty woman.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-05-18T10:59:42+00:00

How are your looks who you are? Your looks could change in an instant, would who you are change if you got plastic surgery? Who you are is your personality, and both men and women can and do want each other for that. (As well as their looks, and many women do want sex or even just sex. I certainly feel like I got what I wanted after good sex! Different people have different goals, although gold diggers are rare.)

purplish_possum · 2023-05-18T10:36:35+00:00

Girls don’t think “I got what I wanted” after having sex

Hell yeah they do! Women decide if they're going have sex with a guy long before they know the details of his financial accounts. Women have sex with guys they're physically attracted to straight away. If the sex is as good as they expected they'll be extremely satisfied and they'll keep coming back for more regardless of whether or not there's anything in it for them financially.

Men and women aren't opposites. Both genders love to fuck. However, women only love to fuck guys they find attractive.

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DickTurtle1804 · 2023-05-18T11:52:16+00:00

I'm single now but my most recent partner of 8 years supported me financially for 18 months when my business took a hit during covid until.I was able to get itbup and running again. Also..I resorted to wearing boxers to bed most nights after being tired of having my cock sucked as a wake up call every single morning for 5 years. I've had a few gold diggers before that sure but they are easily spotted..just pump and dump. Simple really.

Title	CMV: Girls aren’t really capable of wanting men for “who they are”, aka their looks
Author	lacuti3
Upvotes	0
Comments	38
Date	May 18, 2023 10:25 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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