How do I tell a girl I’m not interested without offending her?

mewbestpokeman · 2023-07-01T07:34:53+00:00

You sought out an "all pill" sub to post this, so I'm gonna assume you want black p*lled advice. Get surgery to make yourself uglier and shorter so she loses interest.

kukkle1111 · 2023-07-01T05:18:18+00:00

What do I do?

Tell her you’re gay and you can’t keep lying to her or to yourself.

ZookeepergameTasty12 · 2023-07-01T07:13:58+00:00

Wrong sub dude

Diligent_Divide_4978 · 2023-07-01T16:12:00+00:00

You don't want to offend her even though she's using you for betabuxx?

Drop nuclear bpills on her hard and fast.

Next time she wants to hang out, bring her to your living room, put youtube on your TV monitor, and faceandlms and chill.

throwawayVishot · 2023-07-01T08:17:35+00:00

What do I do?

Tell her you're going away for along time. Holidays, work, visiting relatives. Then ghost her. Hopefully she will forget about you.

Worldly_Piano9526 · 2023-07-02T02:10:27+00:00

Just start trauma dumping on her and go "vegan" for "religious" reasons so you can't order food at restaurants without reading the ingredients list on the package, suggest a non-food date, and if she insists; "accidentally" forget your wallet at home.

If she makes you eat meat; start welling up with tears, run off to the bathroom, and make yourself puke.

Also tell her that you are a bisexual bottom and considering trying cross dressing.

Maybe even tell her a story about how you keep seeing a dude who keeps giving you gonorrhea but you keep going back because he keeps telling you he's clean.

Lots of ways to make a woman lose interest... Feel free to get creative with it... Lol

paperpatience · 2023-07-02T23:54:13+00:00

Just do something that will make her drop you. Accidentally play Andrew Tate on your phone. Cry in front of her. Be really clingy and text her like a woman (heyyyy, etc). Talk about video games and anime. Get religious

LeMansManletRacer · 2023-07-01T09:20:32+00:00

I had to cut off a woman after her husband found out she was cheating on him with me. Threatened me and told me to fuck off. 👌 So I sent her one last message and blocked her ass. Then she tried calling me from different numbers and I blocked those too, multiple times a day. Her high score was like 25, I think.

Eventually I just changed my number. I still have her saved in my contacts so she pops on my recommendations for social media and im tempted to reach out and see how that ended.

Just block her. Don't send a final message, cut her off cold turkey.

AnonJetlag · 2023-07-01T05:40:11+00:00

“I’m not interested in progressing this relationship further with you”. Simple as that.

Early-Christmas-4742 · 2023-07-01T07:14:10+00:00

Just reject her and stop worrying. You won't get charged with rape, you won't get expelled or fired. Just tell her you're not interrested, then stop coming to onlone spaces that are warping your view of reality to this extent.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-07-01T05:32:53+00:00

How can she be using you for food if she literally did everything but intercourse with you? You paid with food, she paid back with blowjobs and whatnot. That is not using you for food.

AnonJetlag · 2023-07-01T05:37:44+00:00

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PlainTundra · 2023-07-01T09:08:54+00:00

Tell you only see her as a friend.

ErrprMachjne1 · 2023-07-01T11:14:15+00:00

Ghost her.

Pilling_it · 2023-07-01T11:22:07+00:00

You just say you're busy everytime she asks to go out. At some point she'll get the memo and will loose interest herself.

shadowofdoubt13 · 2023-07-01T20:20:46+00:00

I just tell them I’m gay and that if I wasn’t gay, I would do her. That does the trick

EugeneCezanne · 2023-07-01T21:40:04+00:00

First, have you tried talking to her about how you feel? If what you want is to feel more parity in the dynamic, to stay in more often, and be romantically exclusive, say so. If she listens and wants that too, you don't have to break up with her. Present it affirmatively as what you want, not as a criticism. If she listens and doesn't want that, she'll probably save you the trouble and agree to end things on her own volition. At any rate, there's nothing to lose in trying.

If you're set on ending it though, I usually just say something like "I think you're really cool, but I feel like the magic is kind of gone for us."

but seeing all the r*pe accusations and the bullshit that women do I don’t want to offend her when rejecting her. She also said she was a bit crazy and from experience, I trust her.

You took a risk on crazy and you're just going to have to play the hand you're dealt. But for the record, the odds of any consequence beyond an uncomfortable conversation are typically very low.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-07-03T13:40:13+00:00

If you don't think she's that interested in you then why do you think rejecting her would blow up in your face.

Title	How do I tell a girl I’m not interested without offending her?
Author	AnonJetlag
Upvotes	7
Comments	43
Date	July 1, 2023 5:11 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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