Everyone has different definitions of what constitutes a high value man.

Personally, my requirements are quite strict.

– No alcohol, no drugs.

– No flings or hook-ups (it’s fine if he has had 1-2 long term relationships).

– Low body count (ideally a virgin however it’s impossible to find a HVM who is a virgin).

– Ambitious (always working on something, desires to get ahead, good career and prospects).

– Provider (willing to provide for a large family).

– High intelligence (A man who is much more smarter than me)!

– Stoic (I dislike dramatic and talkative men)

– I don’t care much about looks but I prefer he looks similar to me (I mean in terms of ethnicity). I value fitness and height, I can’t sugarcoat this unfortunately…

– Disciplined

– Religious (will attend religious functions with me and my family every Sunday).

Do you think these requirements are a bit too strict? I’ve gotten told I’m crazy for expecting this. My ideal life is just to stay at home and be a homemaker, clean the home, cook for my husband, take care of our big family. I’m not ambitious at all and I keep getting called low IQ and silly for not pursuing a career. :(

The wild thing is I have met a man who fulfills all of the above so I think it’s entirely possible but I don’t know why I’m mocked when I tell other people what I expect?