Why is it that any time a woman tries to comfort and support y’all, you just get angry and rage?

kukkle1111 · 2023-07-04T02:06:12+00:00

Most people aren’t out there with robust and exciting dating libes.

Bullshit. If the average woman lived for one week as an average week man with not only no romantic attention, but any attention at all from anyone whatsoever, she would march directly into the ocean and end it.

Women are born with an inherit value: Being women. Men are entirely disposable unless they’re tremendously handsome or produce a tremendous amount of income, things that 90% of men can and will never achieve.

The reason why men become so angry when women try to tell them “sex and relationships ain’t a big deal, bro lol” is because it comes from a place of fundamental misunderstanding. Women are fundamentally incapable of understanding what it feels like to be disposable and invisible because a woman couldn’t be viewed as disposable or invisible if her goddamned life depended on it.

Marie Antoinette was out of touch with the average Frenchman, telling them to just eat cake if they had no bread.

Then they cut her head off and buried her in an unmarked grave.

pop442 · 2023-07-04T02:35:38+00:00

I feel ambivalent about this.

On one hand, a woman who doesn't talk down to men is better than one who always talks down to men.

On the other hand, the virtue signaling can sometimes be cringeworthy while also lowkey exposing the woman.

My favorite that's common in r/dating is when a woman in her late 20's and above declares that looks are no longer important to her and that she doesn't care is a man isn't hot, tall, and rich as long as his personality is good. Then, that same woman will talk about how she used to be "one of those girls" who thought those things mattered and dated men who were hot, tall, etc. before her "discovery."

Sometimes, I wonder if those women even realize that they're playing themselves by saying this.

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-04T04:49:38+00:00

It’s not a big deal for you.

Being a virgin is turn-off for many women. Being virgin signal that no woman ever wanted to have sex with you. Many women want a man who is wanted by other women.

Extension-Inside-826 · 2023-07-04T02:15:51+00:00

Anything after 20 is p bad

ErrprMachjne1 · 2023-07-04T04:44:17+00:00

Women really don't offer anything to men except sometimes refreshing perspective when things get dry.

Men have to go through the hardest things themselves without support. When men are at their lowest no woman will come within a hundred meters of them. They may say superficial things but for the most part they will absolutely withdraw to protect themselves and stick with a better bet aka what's best for them.

Then when the man comes around and battles his way to a position of stability, comfort and peace in life, the women come in droves to try different games.

One of those games includes trying to disprove men's assesment of women and their experience by either abusing men in to believing them (this means shaping them in to a controlled form where they are still functional and usable like for beta bux) or they will try to appease the men in their masculinity, probably a few other reasons idk.

But either way men have experienced the truth about women and suffered in silence. For the most part we can tell women have no fucking idea what they are talking about lmao.

My observation is most women don't even take a notice in to the male experience, what we feel and deal with, until they aren't able to get what they want from the world. Usually in their 30's. I've had a lot of women sort of wake up to me and he like "wow I wish I was nicer to you" 3-4 chicks from my 20's I knew pretty well too. Thinking back in it I was kind of like .

Hm yeah I remember what you did and how you treated me when I was at my worst. Look at you now. Can't even have a decent conversation with half those chicks they cling to their youth going out several nights a week dating low test guys and cheating on them. Fuckin pathetic. And most will jump like dogs if you snap your fingers but still try to front and make you believe they are superior. It's disgusting and pathetic.

This is the same reason men can't take emotional men and women seriously. To us, emotional responses never solved anything. So when women cry crocodile tears or men talk about how bad they feel and how hard life is other than in sort of memable self depreciating self aware ways, we are like bruh just fuckin stop, or start laughing.

If you ever notice women break down crying and men just laugh it's not because we are laughing at the woman even, it's the absurdity to us. That a person could break down and actually expect someone to care. That's not the way it works for us. It never has. It works for women. Women cry because it works for them. Men don't have the privilege of emotional reactions and the more they try to use that the more unreliable and treacherous they become, backstabbing white knight pieces of shit.

Throw_AwayDiscussion · 2023-07-04T14:59:56+00:00

Women will never have empathy towards incels / neurodivergent men unless the price is paid by having a male son or having someone close to them commit the ultimate act of unaliving themselves.

Rude_Excitement2909 · 2023-07-04T11:03:24+00:00

ive had women irl try to help me out. theyve tried to give me general self-improvement advice, set up my dating profiles, give me tips related to specific scenarios, etc., and none of it worked. zero. donut. they then all assured me that the reason it didnt had nothing to do with my looks. i was simply unlucky and had to keep trying.

do you not realize how frustrating it is to be told that? imagine trying literally everything a woman (not any blackpiller, not any pua) tells you to do, it not working, and then being told by that very same woman that there is no problem with the dating market at all, that youve simply been unlucky. imagine her telling you that with a straight face when both of you know how much easier dating is for other men.

you genuinely feel like youre being gaslit. you feel like youre going insane. the worst part is when they tell you beauty is subjective. you, the balding manlet are JUST AS ATTRACTIVE as chad, the only difference is you havent yet found the women who think so. but theyre out there!

it genuinely boils your blood. the other comments put it well: as men and women we really do live on entirely different planets. i know there are some women out there who are truecels. really ugly, very autistic, etc. but when youre talking averages, we are on entirely different planets, and im sick of women pretending were not.

Lovedbythesunandmoon · 2023-07-04T02:25:01+00:00

They're addicted to their victimhood and they don't want help or encouragement.

Educational_Ad4410 · 2023-07-04T16:26:28+00:00

Because it’s fake, being a virgin for a man and you don’t have a religious reason is seen as bad by society (even with a religious reason the guy is viewed weirdly), that guy is viewed as a loser. We not just talking just to talk, this is the male virgin experience. How is denying people’s real life experiences “supporting” anyone?

DurtyDanky · 2023-07-06T19:03:59+00:00

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Why is it that any time a woman tries to comfort and support y’all, you just get angry and rage?

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And of course a woman will be pickier in her youth. Her SMV is her youth. Don’t whine about equally sharing SMV.

Title	Why is it that any time a woman tries to comfort and support y’all, you just get angry and rage?
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