My wife took our daughter to a feminist rally with a friend. How to respond (if at all)?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-01-21T05:44:05+00:00

Your wife's friend is a cancer, growing on your marriage.

She invites my wife and daughter to the rally/march. My wife insists on going despite my resistance. I trusted her on using her best judgment on what was appropriate for our daughter and what was not at the march. She knows my distaste for feminism.

Who is the head of your family, you or your wife's friend?

I’m furious. I’m trying to remain calm but I am finding it difficult. I don’t care what my wife does, but subjecting my daughter to that is a different story.

You should care very much what your wife does, because she introduced cancer into your family.

And politicizing children is a shitty thing to do.

GayLubeOil · 2018-01-21T07:45:50+00:00

Your wife is subjecting your children to degeneracy and your anger is rightfully justifiable. As a father your job is not only to defend your family from physical threats but also ideological threats. Men who don't understand this are fathers to tranny boys.

Anyway sometimes you got to put a woman in her stupid fucking place. Iv done it on numerous occasions and iv yet to regret it.

MattyAnon · 2018-01-21T14:57:09+00:00

My wife (as far as I know) doesn’t subscribe to the feminist movement but enjoys her company outside of work as well.

AWALT. You're married. watch out.

I trusted her

uh oh

I’m furious. I’m trying to remain calm but I am finding it difficult. I don’t care what my wife does, but subjecting my daughter to that is a different story.

Well, there's fuck all you can do about it unless you have some leverage in the situation.

[deleted] · 2018-01-21T05:38:07+00:00

Sounds to me like you have a problem with holding authority over your own household. Your wife clearly does not listen to the "captain".

I have no issues with her up to this point as she is a nice person and pleasant to be around.

https://www.farnamstreetblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Trojan-Horse.jpg

Yeah, she's doing it so you won't interfere.

My wife (as far as I know) doesn’t subscribe to the feminist movement

Watch what they do, don't listen to what they say. "My wife doesen't subsribe to the feminist movement but she INSISTED on going on a feminist rally"...

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/26/your-girlfriends-friends-are-your-enemy/

"Your Girlfriend’s Friends Are Your Enemy"

This is very dangerous to your marriage and especially your daughter.

Most women become feminists because they're ugly or salty with Chads.

Your wife's new "friend" is most probably jealous of her family life and will try and sabotage it(crabs in a bucket mentality).

She already should have crossed your boundaries with involving your daughter in a movement that may change her into something you would rather not:

https://memestatic.fjcdn.com/pictures/Before_cf97f0_6180065.jpg

You need to deal with this "friend" with high priority.

I'm not you but I think that if you explicitly forbade your wife to hang out with this woman and told her to change her job she wouldn't listen to you as she clearly lacks respect for you or just disregards your authority in the marriage. Taking a two year old to a feminist rally? Fucking retared, especially after the antifa riots.

I would deal with this shit like a man. Send daughter to a friend or something and while keeping frame have a serious discussion with wife how this has got to stop or you will check the fuck out. Show some authority. - but this is dangerous as it could trigger a divorce rape.

But I wouldn't be in this predicament in the first place because I won't get married. Right now you are risking a divorce rape and child alimony while your daughter becomes a bull-horn wearing slut.

Google: "Dealing with BrainWashed Family Members" and "How to talk someone out of a cult" because feminism should be considered a brainwashing cult.

Also every potential conflict with your wife about this will be used by her "friend" against your marriage.

If I were you I would watch carefully what happens during the next few weeks(daughter and wife) and plan my moves carefully.

You either deal with it or wait until your wife will want to cuck you with her new bull that she met through her "friend" and call you a oppresive chuvanist pig if you won't eat her pussy with his cum in it.

First of all start talking to a divorce lawyer and prepare yourself. Nothing good is going to come out of this.

Edit:

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/04/24/how-to-win-at-divorce/

Sever all emotional ballast. Take on all debt. File for divorce. Then file for bankruptcy. Start over a new man. That’s living the new American Dream.

all4gibs · 2018-01-21T05:48:07+00:00

there are generally two types of feminists:

1) SJW, anti-male, female supremacists 2) ignorant followers thinking the movement is for suffering women

#2 enables and justifies #1 and i wouldn’t tolerate either of them in my household

i look at it this way. out of maybe 20 disqualifiers i have when seeking out a LTR, the number one red flag is any hint of feminism and would put divorce on the table. it seems your wife doesn’t really know what she’s doing, so i’d find out what her intentions are parading around whining about female oppression in a western country (with your daughter nonetheless). if she wanted to escalate the situation, i’d honestly peace out. if she backpedals, it’d be time to set clear boundaries for her and your daughter

men won’t be able to put a stop to this feminist garbage if they continue putting up with blatant disrespect

BlackMisc · 2018-01-21T09:57:07+00:00

i would get really pissed off if my wife would drag a 2 year old who doesn't know yet what to believe in 2 a brainwashing feminist march.

making a child of 2 hold a sign for any protest is outrageous and wrong

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-01-21T07:19:04+00:00

Everything boils down to male leadership and unremitting masculinity.

Metalageddon · 2018-01-21T16:40:38+00:00

Your wife's friend has absolutely no business placing words in your child's mouth as a poster for her agenda.

Your wife should've said no.

I understand your concern. Time to have a conversation with your wife.

FrancoB42 · 2018-01-21T05:39:55+00:00

Divorce your wife and save your assets so you don’t get divorce-raped. You should not tolerate feminism in your household at all. Imagine the results of feminist conditioning in your house for the next 20 years.

bensake2016 · 2018-01-21T14:42:16+00:00

Listen to what your wife is REALLY communicating. The fact that her going to a fem rally has caught you off guard shows that she has been a feminist for a while. Obedient wives don't just go to fem rallies on the spur of a moment. There were plenty of red flags along the way that you chose to ignore.

As for the anger, channel it towards the mirror. Chastise yourself for not dealing with this much sooner. But DO NOT ever show that anger towards her, or your daughter, as this is exactly what your wife is expecting (you've been playing her game after all, so she can read you like a book).

As an immediate short-term solution, do the complete opposite of what you FEEL like doing.

You feel like getting angry? Start laughing, watch a comedy, or anything that will make a joke of the situation.

You feel like talking to your wife about this (aka man-splaining and reasoning, from her point of view), then do the opposite: don't talk, do. DO fuck her brains out without a word. DO not have a cozy conversation afterward. DO anything, but NO talking. This will restore your mysteriousness to her.

Read the 16 commandments of poon, and start chizzling at each of them one by one. This will take time, but better late than never, and in your case, sounds like this is a very salvagable situation. Your daughter will thank you for it later, She is, after all, watching you intently to see how you will respond to this. The "friend" can also read you like a book, and is already telling her, "oh your Dad, WHEN he gets angry, just ignore him and do what you feel is right, bla bla bla." You not getting angry, and doing the opposite will not only catch your daughter's attention, but may save her life someday from the drudge of feminism, since now you would have the upper hand after proving the fem-friend wrong.

ayefranco · 2018-01-21T12:45:14+00:00

Unfortunately my good man.. this is a prepping for your daughter to run around with the "sexually liberated" stamp on her forehead as she.. Well.. You know the rest, good luck brother.

all4gibs · 2018-01-21T14:11:33+00:00

Haha had to be like some coordinated thing, city I'm currently in just had one and it was as big of a joke as you could imagine.

100k ugly fat alternate looking bitches United against nothing.

Check your wife.

DeathToTheZog · 2018-01-21T10:19:59+00:00

Launch. Da. Nuke.

123456654321 · 2018-01-21T23:18:30+00:00

https://i.redd.it/yzhfh34gubb01.jpg

frequentlywrong · 2018-01-21T14:54:28+00:00

No need to overreact. You should remind her her friend is a miserable childless woman if she comes at you with some stupid feminist shit.

Ou-tis · 2018-01-21T12:10:44+00:00

Take your daughter phisically elsewhere.

Taipanshimshon · 2018-01-21T20:20:10+00:00

Your response should have been to grab her by the pussy.

Your wife. Not your kid.

Wowtcg12 · 2018-01-21T21:56:21+00:00

yo what the fuck is this subreddit. youre a fucking pussy if you cant let your wife go to a feminist rally. I agree she shouldnt be using your daughter in a political sense but cmon dude it's a fucking womans march not a god damn nazi rally

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2018-01-21T05:24:01+00:00

Your 2 year old daughter is not going to be indoctrinated by one night out with your mom and your mom's friend. Cool your jets.

Also, some feminist marches are fringe/far-left circuses propagandizing for various bizarre ideological crusades. Others, like many of the recent anti-Trump women's marches, are pretty tepid and inoffensive. While nominally feminist they are more about expressing displeasure with the government than they are about propagandizing for some kind of "SJW agenda."

Cowsareblack · 2018-01-21T18:07:02+00:00

Grow up and realize that your wife and daughter are their own people. Stop being a control freak about non issues like this.

Title	My wife took our daughter to a feminist rally with a friend. How to respond (if at all)?
Author	heliken79
Upvotes	70
Comments	76
Date	21 January 2018 04:47 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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