The dating market sucks for the majority of people, for both men and women I'd argue since many men struggle having sex and women don't find enough High-Quality Men™️ and have to settle. Men also have it arguably worse because many literally lack options.

If you are truly Blackpilled you have probably realized that this situation is a consequence of Human Biological Nature running free in a sexually free environment, thus we have to accept it as a status quo: even if we banned social medias and online dating the effect would be small, the average girl still WON'T be physically and sexually attracted to the average guy and we can't really force this attraction.

Thus imo the only way to fix this predicament is to find scientific solutions. They can be indirect (band iad) solutions like Sexbots and Virtual Reality where you ease the mental burden without actually adressing the core issue, or they can be more direct (and controversial) solutions like Eugenics, plastic surgery, DNA editing, altering the gender ratio.

Basically, it's useless for men and women to blame each other for the dating landscape we have today. Natural selection and Evolution have already "chosen" for us our inner feelings and desires and we shouldn't try to force single individuals to behave in a certain way. At the same time we shouldn't stop to voice our feelings and wait for the world to fix itself, the more we talk respectfully about these issues the quicker someone will find and develop solutions.