should i give up?

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-08-08T01:00:54+00:00

The only cope that works is
1) geomax after saving $1M USD up over a 30 year career
2) Saving up over a 20 year career and marrying a single obese mom

But honestly OP, what else are you gonna do? What do you mean by overdose on copium?

2drunk2caree · 2023-08-08T01:56:20+00:00

I gave up 2 years ago, and I'm starting to get more numb to the loneliness. Idk how long it will last, or if that's a good thing, but I am starting to care less about ever finding a relationship which I can't complain about.

Idk how bad it will be once I get old and all my family and friends are dying, but I'm fairly certain I'm gonna find out because I sincerely doubt I'll ever find anybody.

I'm an alcoholic, I eat like shit, and I don't exercise which helps a lot because I barely have a libido. It also means I'll probably be dead before 60, but as long as I outlive my parents and don't break their hearts I can deal with that.

I'm not gonna tell you to give up though. Maybe you have some hope, I dunno. I just know that hope for me just ends up making me feel worse in the long run.

Relative_Editor_2179 · 2023-08-08T05:36:48+00:00

What is your race. If you’re white you can still try south east Asia. If you’re ethnic it is over

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-08T13:47:43+00:00

If all this is true, then give up on women, but not on yourself. Get educated/trained for a job/career. Get a vasectomy. Work hard. Make and save money. Shoot for retirement by 55. Hire sex workers/escorts for occasional sex. If you don't like that, get massages so you get touch. Do things you enjoy. Cultivate cool hobbies/pastimes. Do this for you, not for anyone else.

You have a unique opportunity to live for yourself and for no one else.

Enigmatic93 · 2023-08-08T04:51:51+00:00

Yes. You'll feel a lot better trust me.

qwertyuiopdf · 2023-08-08T06:31:08+00:00

It's over bro.

YearnsToDestroySun · 2023-08-08T07:42:53+00:00

sex dolls! 😸

TommySildon91 · 2023-08-08T12:44:49+00:00

Yes, i gave up and i'm not a micropeni -> see my posts

ZookeepergameTasty12 · 2023-08-09T01:31:53+00:00

Like many of us, you lost the genetic lottery at birth. You might as well be asexual at this point. Just try to cope with other things in life or something. No advice really.

JustBeMoreHandsome · 2023-08-08T05:36:16+00:00

Just be more handsome.

operation-spot · 2023-08-08T01:20:05+00:00

Make peace with the fact that you will never be the imagined masculine man that you thought you would be. It makes more sense to look at who you are, look at the women who are interested in guys in that demographic, and adjust accordingly. You may never be considered attractive by most women and that’s okay, you only need one to find you attractive to enter a relationship.

Instead of ignoring your pain or trying to cover it up with surgery work through why you feel like you’ve fallen short in some way. You might want to ask yourself what the ideal version of you would look like, where does that idea come from, what societal factors have influenced your idea, and how you view yourself as a person.

Since you’re asking I don’t think you truly want to give up so the only option I see is to find a way to keep moving. Good luck and try checking out incel exit Reddit for better advice.

G0dZylla · 2023-08-08T15:24:11+00:00

see these steps and be honest wheter or not you've completely fulfilled them

1)have you fully looksmaxxed? have you reached your "ceiling" in terms of looks(skin care/working out/style/good haircut) basically do you have the best looks you can have?

if no consider reaching your maximum potential in terms of looks

if yes then let's go to step 2

2)have you optimized your social skills? many people here trash on game, but if you improved your looks you then need to improve your game. Basically are you a person that's fun to be with? do you give value in conversation?...

if you feel like you still lack on your social skills then work on them

if you think you are a smooth talker then go to step 3

3)Did you do the numbers game? how many women are you approaching, flirting with? how many are rejecting you? having 20 women reject doesn't mean it's over but it means you need to ask more people out , improve your dating profile

if you were rejected by 100+ women(who are in your same league) then go to step 4

4)GEOMAXX to SEA(thailand/philipines) and try with the women there

please don't lie to yourself , i know it's comforting to say "it's over" because it means it's not your fault and you don't need to put effort anymore BUT if you really tried all 4 steps completely and recieved zero results then you can proudly say that "IT'S OVER"

Safinated · 2023-08-08T01:05:00+00:00

Sounds like a personal decision to me

IncelRecovThrowaway · 2023-08-08T20:39:11+00:00

It's time to ropemaxx

10121001 · 2023-08-08T23:09:22+00:00

You are perfect the way you are. Get a massage and hug a relative.

Over-Ad-2902 · 2023-08-08T01:43:53+00:00

Sending love brother, you can either careermaxx hard and try to fix what you can, Or use your money towards enjoying other things in life. I’m sorry you got dealt a bad hand and I hope you find peace.

jha_avi · 2023-08-08T18:24:56+00:00

My coping mechanism is to remember that whatever women want i don't have it. I see all the dudes getting girls and enjoying life and while I'm happy for them, i would like to not see them. I have no hope left and my future plans are to adopt and save as many pets as I can. They will love me unconditionally.

I know no girl has ever liked me in my entire life. Maybe it's because I'm ugly and introverted. I find it hard to talk to girls. I am able to make guy friends easily. If i wasn't ugly i could have had less pressure to have confidence because then the girls would have taken a bit of initiative. I have seen my introverted hot friend get asked out by girls out of nowhere. He showed me his texts asking what to do. It just broke me that they sent him messages while i don't even get replies. I stopped all communication with girls on insta. Hopefully I'll die early.

I_remember_oddkast · 2023-08-10T12:16:07+00:00

The wrist thing is brutal. I used to bite the back of mine so the swelling would make them less thin and I must have damaged something because I can't put my hands in certain positions without extreme pain.

IndifferentImp · 2023-08-11T10:44:57+00:00

Hi op, It sounds like physically we have similar traits (however I'm South Asian and balding as well). You sound young so I'll say over the next few years wean yourself off the copium and slowly you'llbe more and more at peace with the fact it's all over. It's all about time and slowly chipping away until you don't feel as awful about it

Title	should i give up?
Author	clayrivermud2
Upvotes	25
Comments	62
Date	August 8, 2023 12:57 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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