Advice how to be a friend to a women?

eefr · 2023-08-19T21:06:24+00:00

What’s some good topics to talk about and fun places to explore as friends.

Why don't you ask her? We've never met her and can't predict what she would like.

There isn't some magic set of things that all women enjoy; we are all different. Part of developing a relationship with someone is seeing them as a unique individual and getting to know their specific interests and tendencies. Treating her like she is some kind of generic woman is exactly the wrong way to get closer to someone.

WonkyBoot · 2023-08-19T20:52:01+00:00

Ask her what she likes to do when she's not working. Movies she recommends. Favorite bands. Any favorite shows or content creators? Her dream job, etc.

Just be curious but in a gentle way

edit: typo

tromp-et · 2023-08-20T11:43:10+00:00

Do you want to date her or do you want to be her friend?

Ifhes · 2023-08-19T22:05:18+00:00

Starting to seeing them as regular friends and not as a separate thing such as "lady friends".

No-Chance-8405 · 2023-08-20T07:58:24+00:00

You could mention an interesting documentary that you've watched and tell her a little bit about it, and ask her opinion.

Another idea is to ask her advice on something, nothing too serious but also nothing too trivial. Maybe you can find something that would give her an insight into your life this way.

dumbbitchcas · 2023-08-21T03:26:16+00:00

As if you would befriend a man. Just be nice. Find mutual interests.

StarTrippinn · 2023-08-20T01:16:45+00:00

I don't think there's anything wrong with a teasing friendship. It can be some of the most fun friendships IMO but if you want a more genuine deeper connection, have deeper conversations. Asking what she likes to do outside of work is cool but it's just very basic and unless you have a good connection and it flows naturally, or you know about her hobbies, it will be hard to shift that into something deeper but definitely not impossible at all.

There's certainly a way to do it like guessing what her hobbies say about her personality. If you're wrong, lean into it and figure out why. If you're right, even better and go from there.

Reading books about random shit, learning about random shit helps even a little knowledge can go a long way. I had an Uber driver from Yemen the other night and on an hour long drive, we talked the entire time and I didn't hardly know shit about Yemen. I asked questions, and we ended up talking about his family and the government and how he struggles and works two jobs, just off of one tiny piece of mainly incorrect information that I knew.

Good luck though. Just the fact that you are inquisitive is a decent enough sign. You could also be hella hella upfront and just tell her, I really want to be genuine friends and I would like to get to know you more. I personally would find that very sweet and endearing but I have an upfront personality so other people could find that weird and lame.

You just have to have a good enough reason ask to why you want to know her more because I would definitely ask someone why, and depending on their answer would depend on if I take them seriously or not.

TNB247365 · 2023-08-20T08:26:59+00:00

From my experience, to be a friend with a woman, it's more about them deciding they want to make it a possibility of you being their friend. Some of them see low status men as not even friend material.

xXXxIZeusIxXXx · 2023-08-20T14:19:16+00:00

Why would you want to be friends with a woman in the first place?

If u truly want her go after what u know

WinningExponent · 2023-08-19T21:34:41+00:00

Wait

You want it to evolve past that?

So you arent a friend?

Bit confused here

Title	Advice how to be a friend to a women?
Author	WinningExponent
Upvotes	9
Comments	29
Date	August 19, 2023 8:34 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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