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dont_evER_get_up

September 27, 2023
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Title Would you rather be
Author

dont_evER_get_up

Upvotes 4
Comments 19
Date September 27, 2023 2:52 PM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/16tmoyr/would_you_rather_be/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/would-you-rather-be.1233184
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Comments

[–]Soewp1234 13 points14 points15 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

no point in betabbuxx if you will probably end up in a dead bedroom

[–]LeastAverageMonkeNeutralPill 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Rather be single no times deal with women

[–]ImOverIt06 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Incel 4 life. Imagine actually having to support some chick and waste money when she doesn't want anything to do with you otherwise. I'd rope for sure.

As opposed to give some chick money once in a while for a night of fun. Make her happy. Make yourself happy, go back to life happy.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Could likely have a couple live in sugar babies from Caracas for very little per month+room and board+food, general life expenses. Idk about the legality of this though, I’m sure it depends where you live

[–]ImOverIt06 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I keep saying this but we a mid 30s male I genuinely don't understand what a woman can bring in to my life that I need. My experiences dating especially this year have been nothing but unwanted drama. So.

If it's excitement and novelty I don't really need that. I take care of everything myself so it's like, what. Why. It's all risk. Some of it substantial.

Idk why any man would want to slave away at work then BB for some random woman. She should be doing for him not the other way around. What's she do that he can't do for himself? It's just weird and backward.

I think shame plays a huge part of it. I wasted so much money on women this year it's worse than gambling. I'm saving up for a PS5 and going to continue hitting the gym, reading books, taking walks in nature and just being grateful to be alive idgaf. I've worked hard to get this far in life why the hell would I let someone else come in and complicate or even tear it apart.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Sex, intimacy, companionship

[–]ImOverIt06 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm not really interested in sex with women I've had enough and it's not worth the headache. Again I don't think it's really clear to people that having a partner is a double sided responsibility, so they same people saying huurrrr you get sex and companionship! Don't realize that those two things come with responsibility and just aren't what they are cracked up to be.

It's really exhausting having to deal with the problems than come with relationships and it does affect you. Effects your self esteem, anxiety levels, all these things. It's just not a balanced bet for me.

Funny how people will constantly encourage you to die alone and that you're a fucking loser but as soon as you see clearly that there's no point in having women around they desperately try to convince you of otherwise lmao. A message to all the men here.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No responsibility if it’s fwb or a ltr as a good looking man, or escorts/sugar babies.

Dating as a non Chad is pretty awful though, I can sympathize with that. You have to offer commitment that previous guys didn’t, jump through a medley of hoops, sometimes are even expected to spend money. In return, you likely won’t even be having the same type of sex she had with better men in the past, who just texted her to come over snd hangout/have sex, and will be an emotional tampon. You won’t be permitted to open up or vent, desire any emotional support. That will only go one way lol.

[–]ImOverIt06 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's the thing like. Fuck man.

It's so hard to sell lol.

I'm a 6/10 looking guy and there's the human aspect of relationships. There was a time in life I would have sacrificed and been willing to dedicate myself to the care and wellbeing of another person. But relationships are sacrifice and I don't meet any women worthy of that sacrifice.

Otherwise I'm just satisfying her loneliness and sexual needs. I don't care or get it.

I'll probably change my mind at one point but rn it's like dude I just want peace. Can't even have a decent conversation with most people.

I'm reading a lot more and it's done good for my mind to deal with being distracted by the world so I'll probably just stick with that.

[–]uselessloner123 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is illegal anywhere prostitution is illegal.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True, but prostitution is legal in many, many places. I get that most people here probably live in North America, but europe has very different laws, as does South America.

[–]BoogersAndSugar 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Betabuxxing = eventually having all the problems of an incel plus stuck living with a female roomate you can't stand, and getting rid of her would mean a life of poverty. Once she gets the 2 kids and big house she wanted, she no longer has to pretend/play act, and that's when you find out how "attracted" to you she REALLY was the whole time!

[–]Specific_Praline_362 -2 points-1 points0 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't know much about how marriage or divorce works

[–]Aafan_Barbarro 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Brutal.

[–]depressed_apple20 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Being a betabuxx is humiliating, if I wanted to have sex with someone who doesn't desire me, I would become rich and pay as many prostitutes as I can, I would love to earn enough money to pay a prostitute each day and have regular animalistic sex, it wouldn't be better than actually being attractive and good enough for women, but it's way better than being a humiliated, inferior cucked betabuxx.

[–]mewbestpokeman 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oofy doofy beta buxx ATM dead bedroom married cel is worse than being inkwell.

[–]princedune 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess bb.... 24 years of being completely alone is driving me insane. I don't think id physically be able to do another 50+ years of this, but you didnt include roping as an option, so...

[–]Specific_Praline_362 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most of yall are volcels then

[–]SuitableStart 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Becky doesn't mean she can't be a poetic and educated woman.

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