Men were bred to be fierce competitors in response to the high expectations everyone has of us. It's why we're all aggressive and have lower life expectancies. If women don't like that they should stop partnering with those kind of men all the time and lower their expectations for us. Otherwise we'll have violent and aggressive fantasies when we're very upset. It doesn't mean we'll act upon it, it's just an innate urge which drives all male success, including the ones which compel a man to sacrifice his life for his country or family. If some man doesn't respond like that to hardship, it's not because he's a gentleman and we're just evil weirdos, it's because he hasn't experienced the same level of despair and feeling of utter hopelessness that we have. So people need to accept incels will be like that and stop shaming us for being very angry. We don't have to be all dejected and self hating to count as lonely depressed people.