Do you have Attractive Male friends? How did it affect your view on relationship

elektroncloud · 2023-10-16T05:57:17+00:00

Hearing married women chase after handsome guys is so blackpilling, you're never safe from female degeneracy

FitDomPoet · 2023-10-16T18:41:36+00:00

From grade school through college how many black pills do you need to see the writing on the wall.

Women treat men they're attracted to much differently than normies. At least today people don't believe any of that 'You just gotta go up to them and say...' bullsh17 anymore which was dumped on kids that were raised to be betas and buy flowers for girls and treat them with 'respect' LOL.

The truth is this: A man's face is his best pick up line.

its-probly-over · 2023-10-16T07:47:35+00:00

I have no friends.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-10-16T11:23:01+00:00

Yes OP I agree, as rough as incels have it, the divorced rape deadbedroom alimony paying ex husbands have it worse. MGTOW was the original incel forums before massive hypergamy from OLD causing women to raise their standards. MGTOW is where women actually decided to marry would be incels just to divorce rape them and take their kids away.

Suprisingly I've noticed as women's hypergamy went into overdrive from Tinder that MGTOW has decreased, and incels have increased. Often now, women would only marry an incel after she's had Chad's kids and needs his money. At least MGTOW had a younger kid free woman to marry to fuck him over.

Ok_Smile_60 · 2023-10-16T12:30:58+00:00

This isn’t entirely on topic, just somewhat close longer post I made before, I’ve made another one about my experience, I’ll try to find. At work so hard to do long posts, lol ————— Hmm, this is from last year. There is a Chad in our social circle, he was 31 at this time. He’s a chef, 5’11, but crazy good body, very nice face, has great game.

We had another women in our circle, 26, owns a house and is a scientist. Both were groomsmen/bridesmaid at the wedding. She was the only single bridesmaid, Chad and I the only single groomsman. She asked the group about hooking up with him.

We told her he was a total fuck boy, and was already sleeping with a co worker and his roomate. She went full steam ahead anyways, and was all over him at the wedding.

At same wedding, the photographer came onto him, and gave him her number. They would hook up for the next few months.

At the after party we went to a bar, literally with the bridesmaid on his arm, he picks up another girls number while getting drinks. They would hook up a few times, but not a ton.

She was able to rationalize all this and still went out with him for 2 months. Eventually she realized he never stopped sleeping with his co worker (he had told her he was done) and that he was sleeping with his roommate (he told he never had) and that he didn’t actually want to settle down and have a family (he had told her he was looking to settle).

Basically, if someone wants to fuck the Chad, the most transparent lie is enough to get an ‘okay!’ as really, all those rules and things? Don’t matter when you got the tingles

KlugOz · 2023-10-16T14:28:05+00:00

Agreed, and this is the important nuance that everyone suddenly forgets about when they dismiss men's issues with "most men are in relationships" or "short men get into relationships all the time." They aren't stupid, they're just less forgiving to men than women. That's why they do a total 180 when talking about women's issues or bad behavior, they talk TOO MUCH about nuance in an effort to excuse their behavior

NoirPill · 2023-10-16T14:02:00+00:00

Yes. Bluepillers say "touch grass", nothing blackpilled me more than going out with chad friends.

80_20 · 2023-10-16T16:02:40+00:00

I was an American football player. The locker room taught me more than my parents ever did.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-10-16T11:18:38+00:00

Here is one of my posts from PPD
I watched my Chad friend. Im not the beta of the story, but not nearly as Chad as him.
In last year of highschool, Ryan (chad) meet some girls through a girl he was dating from another school. The girls were all friends. One, Kelly, was smart, motivated, kind, hot, skinny, planning on going to university, popular (ryan was none of these things outside of tall and hot and a bad boy).
Kelly had a bf of 2 yrs, but they were both still virgins at 17yrs old. She just wasnt ready, her words. Within 4 weeks of meeting Kelly, Ryan dumped his gf. He dumped or they dumped him often, either he would see them as boring and move on, or he would cheat and get caught. He was never faithful to gfs.
And within a week, ryan was dating Kelly, and within 2 weeks....well she wasnt a virgin anymore lol. 2 months later, She started asking him about maybe she should attend a local university instead of the one she really wanted further away. Then came her birthday party, which me and him were invited to.
Ryan, fucking ass he is lol, took this time to be real with her, says go to the school you want cuz im just here to hit it. Then proceeds to make out with Kelly's girl friend that came to the party...who also had a bf LOL (he wasn't there).
Ya, so 2 yrs of dating the beta got "im not ready" rule, and within 2 weeks of dating, that rule was broken for the Chad.
I owe a lot to that dude, TY Ryan where ever you are (i went to university, he dropped out of high school), you taught me a lot more than months reading TRP ever could.
Btw not one of the 10+ decent girls that he dated ever asked me, his best friend, what kind of bf he was like. They didn't care even if they knew, and a few did, one said openly she was fine with him dating other girls. Ah, fuel for me to lift harder lol.

YearnsToDestroySun · 2023-10-16T07:07:04+00:00

ya, I think those are fair observations. Reason why I'm trying to get muscles and find a wife.

But ya, passive men do become a huge turn-off for women in LTR. When a woman loses respect for their man, that's when the degeneracy starts. Women never admit this since it goes against their virtue signaling proclivities for society.

My mom was a great mother and highly intelligent, but even she was enslaved to what I just described with her 2nd husband (out of 4 now, zomg). Cheated on her 2nd with her future 3rd.

Even the smartest women can just surprisingly be so not self-aware that it's scary. Having the intelligence to manipulate wily, but not the wisdom to have self-control and introspection to do an honest, empathetic cost-benefit calculation for all the loved ones involved before embarking on such feminine toxicity games.

And, a lot of these men being dorky and passive letting their woman get away with this peurile shit ironically seems to be a turn-off for these said women. Despite what feminists scream, it almost seems like women do have a childish proclivity in their DNA they yearn for a man to take charge and rein that side of them in to keep them on an objective, rational mental slate.

Unfortunately, this means that the man needs to be on equal or greater intellectual footing for this yin-yang dynamic to play out properly. And, sadly enough, women are looking less and less at intelligence for an attractor in men. I think it's due to prevalent collective acceptance of female narcissism...since dumb men are easier to manipulate and control :/

LifeIsAVeryBadJoke · 2023-10-16T12:23:55+00:00

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SlutforDirtyFeet · 2023-10-16T14:10:11+00:00

It did not blackpill me, because I think the blackpill is stupid. Only thing I thought was “okay they’re more attractive”

Princess_kitty14 · 2023-10-16T14:00:31+00:00

yes, i have attractive friends, no it doesn't affect my views on relationships

and married friends, and single friends and friends that had cheated etc

Cold-Pineapple2784 · 2023-10-17T13:16:45+00:00

This is common in Western women culture. Not the case for other parts of the world (at least not as much) hence r/thepassportbros

Title	Do you have Attractive Male friends? How did it affect your view on relationship
Author	SlutforDirtyFeet
Upvotes	15
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Date	October 16, 2023 5:42 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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