Most mens rights criticism I receive is something that sounds like "why are you being so analytical about this stuff" and "why are you interested in something that upsets women?"

mr_ogyny · 2024-01-10T12:41:51+00:00

The one I tend to hear is ‘you guys only bring this stuff up to minimise women’s issues, not because you care about men’. The funny thing is that this is exactly what feminists do when it comes to men’s issues.

checkeredvansweedman · 2024-01-10T13:36:39+00:00

We always have to worry about women’s feelings. They want us simping our lives away putting the pussy on the pedestal.

John_Bones23 · 2024-01-10T13:37:28+00:00

Or, “why do you care so much?”

BECAUSE I HAVE A FUCKIN DICK

TheMusicofEndings · 2024-01-10T14:18:43+00:00

It's a slimy tactic to attempt to dismiss your points by minimising and mocking them. After all, they don't need to address your issues if they've convinced everyone else they're about as trivial and petty as a kid throwing a tantrum because he can't have candy.

It's why such people always try to belittle us, make us feel as if we're making mountains out of molehills, or that it somehow, even when we simply want society to recognise some very real problems that affect men overwhelmingly, still harms women.

elebrin · 2024-01-10T14:11:53+00:00

For the first question, it's because I have an analytical mind and when I see a problem I might have or that one of my brothers might have and there is no clear answer nor anyone clearly working on said problem, my mind gets to work weather I like it or not. With regards to women's problems, well, there are lots of people working on those and some pretty good solutions that are in place or in progress and it's being handled by better people than me. I'm willing to help if you can articulate something specific, but otherwise I'm not going to weigh in.

For the second one, MOST of the things I care about with regards to Men's Rights are health oriented or related to male friendship, activities, and outlets. The former just gets ignored for the most part and women don't care when I tell guys to wear a hat and go to the doctor. The latter is a bigger deal, especially when I suggest that men seek time with other men, in a male-exclusive group. I have picked up a few arguments in favor through the years.

Alternative_Poem445 · 2024-01-10T16:20:38+00:00

i usually hear something about red pill or andrew tate. heres the thing one should never give oneself over in whole to an ideology.

Roleandah · 2024-01-10T15:31:43+00:00

This is an answer to you and a lot of people in the comments.

It's great you're picking up on these little sayings. At the root of them is just the simple set of toxic female behavior that they learn from each other when they are young.

When you have no physical control then you must absolutely optimize social and psychological warfare as a way of life. Women won't even do well in their own friend circle if they don't learn some of this and women depend far more on friends as a refuge when attempting to control their male provider.

The stifling feeling of not being heard while being told that the number one thing you should do is talk about things honestly is a horrid, vicious, collective setup emerging naturally from a normal set of female competitive behavior.

That feeling you get when you feel maybe they aren't even capable of understanding. You're wrong. They are. Put anything that is of actual interest to a woman in front of them and they will show you they can understand quite a bit.

Scores upon scores of men are caught up by this because none of us want to admit how natural it is for them to be THAT level of corrupt but literally 100% of my experience confirms this for me.

I can't think of a single fucking exception not at work, my family, nothing.

So my advice is consider the fact that this is true and work your way back from that.

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