Does jacking off to porn alot instantly beta-ize you?

Jebof · 2018-02-21T13:26:22+00:00

There's a motivation you get when you get horney that makes you talk to girls and try to fuck them, if you masturbate you are artificially satisfying that need and no longer feel the need to talk to girls to fuck them. You don't have to stop masturbating altogether, just start doing it once a week , then once every 2 weeks and on an on untill you get a couple plates to do it for you.

SO_Medic · 2018-02-21T13:30:34+00:00

I enjoy the no fap it essentially forces me and my brain to approach and just socialize in general. Just be mindful every addiction you have doesn’t get stopped so much as replaced. Find a healthy habit

Popeman79 · 2018-02-21T13:18:43+00:00

That's a valid question, I don't get why he gets downvoted. As for the answer, porn does you harm because it gives you the release without the work, both mentally and physically.

Kommanderdude · 2018-02-21T13:42:58+00:00

Eulerbrah · 2018-02-21T15:28:15+00:00

Hmmmm This is something mentioned in "No More Mr.Nice Guy", when you feel ashamed of your actions, when your actions make you feel less of a man/person around people, because you're constantly seeking approval, constantly trying to do the right thing forgetting that you should be pleasing yourself first. I don't think there is anything inherently wrong in looking at busty blondes, as long as it doesn't consume your whole time and stops you form becoming a better person (through reading, working out, socializing ...etc)

Notfappening · 2018-02-21T17:17:29+00:00

I think so. I mean, cmon, you're basically being a cuck. You're watching some dude fuck the girl you wish you were fucking. It's gotta have at least a subconscious effect. Plus instead of seeing real women as the only way to get off, you can just go home and whack off to your harem of pixelated pussy. Stop the porn. Join nofap and rock on. Good luck brotha

gaxyu · 2018-02-21T10:58:33+00:00

You already answered yourself. Quit porn that's for sure, going nofap for 1 year won't make you a super man in any way, so it's ok to jack off once in a while or you know, work in yourself so you get plates that do that for you.

Steve_Chiv · 2018-02-21T15:08:00+00:00

Quick simple answer: Yes. Stop.

Jack off to your mental images if you have to do it at all. Much healthier

chazthundergut · 2018-02-21T16:00:32+00:00

What do you think? Is it very alpha for your primary sexual relationship to be with your pc/ smartphone? Is it alpha to sit by yourself and jerk off while watching another man fuck a beautiful chick?

Definitely beta. Will rob you of your drive and dull your edge.

Go out and fuck real pussy.

redpilledprince · 2018-02-21T16:04:10+00:00

Absolutely, it does.

There's a chapter about this in the first rational male book. Jerking off makes you docile (and less alpha) because you're flooding your body with prolactin.

TomeofBlood · 2018-02-21T16:04:37+00:00

Ejaculation saps you of your will: http://dx.doi.org/10.1007/s00265-010-1008-y

While there's no evidence in the following study that says masturbating causes low testosterone, it is proven that having sex with women can give you an average 72% increase (https://www.anabolicmen.com/ejaculation-testosterone/), which is all the more reason to meet real girls instead.

http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/14681990601149197

Darkunicorntribe · 2018-02-21T20:02:51+00:00

You’re doin it too much. I use it as a learning tool to to discover new shit I can do to my girls. Never as a replacement. Also when I jerk off to it like a couple times a week I use an extremely light stroke and never touch the head so it doesn’t fuck with my sensitivity and lastly you don’t want to physically shoot out your load. You gotta pinch the tube underneath ur sack and only have the orgasm. In eastern teachings losing life force when you shoot out a load is a thing and I’ve found it to be true. Holding that shit in hasn’t fucked with my libido in the least. Hope this helps

ex_addict_bro · 2018-02-21T22:07:29+00:00

This is what betas do. They watch the alpha fuck the females.

RuminantBearer · 2018-02-21T23:58:27+00:00

Instant gratification < delayed gratification

Pussy over my right hand.

AggressiveBeta · 2018-02-21T14:39:14+00:00

I don’t know if it beta-izes you, that seems like a pretty strong term. I do know that testosterone levels peak about 7 days after your last ejaculation so its not so much that it makes you a beta, it just prevents you from being as alpha as you could be.

I can’t jack off only once a week because I get way too horny to sleep or focus on anything else but fucking. It’s too distracting. I have to jack off every other day at least. YMMV. But if you want maximum T then beat it only 1x per week

EvanPetersDouble · 2018-02-21T18:35:21+00:00

Smoke a joint and don't overthink trivial matters. Just find a way to relax and satisfy your self without constantly masturbating for four days.

dongpal · 2018-02-21T14:48:58+00:00

every big accomplishment I did in my live, conquering big fears or changing my life, I was on "nofap". Yes it works.

In my experience, Porn is the big culprit, not the fapping.

cappadocianhawk · 2018-02-21T13:36:52+00:00

Will masturbation make you less hungry for pussy and make you act more docile? Yeah, for a time after you come that is normal. You will get the same when you're with a woman, but obviously that is better.

Will porn addiction make your life harder? Yep. It's hard to get satisfied when normal shit doesn't get you hard anymore. And when you're spending hours looking at porn, you are wasting your time. In that way it is the same thing as video games or watching tv/youtube whatever.

There is much more to masculinity than just not masturbating or looking at porn though. NoFap will not give you superpowers. It's mostly placebo. By all means reduce them though, you're always better off putting your energy towards fucking real, actual women.

TehJimmyy · 2018-02-21T13:42:05+00:00

Anyone can tell me if naked pictures are as bad/same with porn ? I cant jerk to my imagination.

VengefullyY0urs · 2018-02-21T15:10:39+00:00

I think it goes beyond porn. I have fallen into the trap where I have abstained from porn and masturbating but not orgasming, meaning I am sleeping with girls 3-4 nights per week. Either way it’s instant gratification.

I am not crazy about most of these girls but it gets the job done like porn, and provides a shallow instant gratification.

I think delayed gratification and the progress of pursuing delayed gratification will harden a man in general but more biologically when you dealing with delayed gratification with biological needs.

dzkkne · 2018-02-21T20:20:39+00:00

It does you, since you are feeling it is...

Terminal-Psychosis · 2018-02-21T18:07:14+00:00

WTF? Dude, if you can't keep your hands off your own dick for more than 15 min, porn is the least of your problems.

Seek professional help, not online self-help groups.

Porn is good, porn is fun. Watch some with a girl or 3.

Your massive penis OCD is what you're worried about.

Your whole little schpiel, what superpowers you've gained, is so completely subjective, it is more placebo than anything else. Keep this broscience bullshit over with the freaks at /nofap. It's what the sub is for.

After you can keep your hands off your dick long enough to keep a steady job, then start reading the sidebar here.

muzn1 · 2018-02-21T10:57:01+00:00

Placebo I reckon sounds like you’re thinking about this too much. Its okay on occasion when you have down time between having sex, but I wouldnt make a habit out of it. Moderation is key as long as you’re still making an effort with women

Guerilla713 · 2018-02-21T15:33:24+00:00

Porn harms you for sure. Stay away from that.

Masturbation can be okay in moderation but don't imagine all the porn scenes you have stored in your brain or you're basically watching porn. If I jack off, it's always to times I've fucked.

Chronogos · 2018-02-22T17:23:23+00:00

I've never noticed a difference. I could go weeks without looking at porn and feeling the same. I have bipolar disorder so I might be different than the ordinary man. I swing from confident as fuck to depressed for no apparent reason.

hb8only · 2018-02-24T16:52:12+00:00

Anyway i noticed the effects of jerking off to porn were almost immediate. Conversely, abstaining from porn and jacking off also gives the said effects.

what about actual sex with girl? I bet the effect is not the same right..?

hb8only · 2018-02-24T16:53:00+00:00

porn - instant gratification

you body thinks you already copulated with hot female = all is ok

=> you are cheating your hormonal/pheromone system...

Title	Does jacking off to porn alot instantly beta-ize you?
Author	WideawakeMind
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Date	February 21, 2018 10:43 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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