Real talk, it's getting really annoying how people, men and women, say men can be emotional or show their emotions to their "friends" or their "lover" yet when they do, they get called a coward, a pussy, sensitive, or not a man when they said it's ok to be emotional. Why should men express their emotions to their girlfriend or wife, when they get the ick, he's called gay or he's not a real man? Better yet why are these so called real men calling a man a bitch or telling him to man up when he's in a time of weakness and just telling him this will automatically help him. Like to me, people need to be quiet and leave that topic alone unless they actually want to help a man when he's in his lowest.