I want to let go of the dating scene so I'm deleting tinder and I'm not actively trying to get something out of it anymore. Instead I'm going to just work on myself completely, but part of working on myself involves doing what makes me uncomfortable, and approaching attractive women is one of those things.

The main reason why I want to let go of dating at the moment. Is honestly I just need to get my head right again. Sometime after I get into a relationship or left my past relationship I lost my mind and started seeking validation from women, and caring too much about this shit. Which in the long run isn't good for my mind, and isn't good for dating in general.

I want to go back to my old ways were I truly didn't depend on validation from women, and just did me. But I also want to still get better at socializing with women I like because that's still apart of improving myself, and being who I want to be.

Sorry if this post sounds contradicting but its hard to explain what I'm trying to get at.