Direct approach -- Do you go for if there's no eye contact (and didn't catch her looking at you)?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-15T02:02:15+00:00

Obviously you have to, because how else are you gonna show her you have confidence if you don’t approach her despite there not being any signs?

You show confidence (and thus create attraction) by doing things that are risky and where the outcome is uncertain, not by playing it safe.

docbarbell · 2022-08-15T02:37:59+00:00

Choosing signals are rare. If you wait for them youll never get any action.

Technical_Hawk8547 · 2022-08-15T02:41:00+00:00

I’d say about 90-95% of my approaches have zero eye contact before approaching. Fuck that noise. Unless you’re like 9/10-10 you will rarely get obvious signs of interest imo

zisehuar · 2022-08-15T02:07:36+00:00

Yeah. Girls can be a bit overwhelmed in that situation so be gentle and kind and you'll be fine.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-15T02:50:56+00:00

I'm a lazy guy so when I was dating I'd approach girls who approached me first. But don't let that stop you from approaching someone with no signals. You just have to do it like you are choosing her and your opener is just stating the reason you chose her.

anicknameyo · 2022-08-15T01:41:13+00:00

Yup, can't know the answer if you didn't ask. And always be respectful about it

zapadz · 2022-08-15T03:03:02+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2AToLV26usE

Try the “start conversations with women” and “get her number” video here http://davidtianphd.com/masterclass-content/

rjones416 · 2022-08-15T06:04:09+00:00

thats what a cold approach is. there was no signs of interest and you just approached. if she gave eye contact or smiled at you i would call that a warm approach.

Mr_Throwaway2834 · 2022-08-15T07:47:48+00:00

yes, she probably didn't even notice you were there.

Title	Direct approach -- Do you go for if there's no eye contact (and didn't catch her looking at you)?
Author	Specialist-Ad-7800
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Comments	13
Date	August 15, 2022 1:33 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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