Tips on making statements?

hunterpua · 2022-07-29T09:37:22+00:00

When the other person hasn't said anything yet you can just say "You look like..." or "You seem like..." and then fill in the blanks with whatever you can come up with in the moment.

It doesn't need to be any more scripted than that because the more you do it, the better you'll get at actually guessing things right.

Now whether you guess wrong or right doesn't make a huge difference in terms how the convo progresses, if anything, guessing wrong lends to more conversation because she could get curious as to why you thought that of her and you also have a reason to find out more about her.

But being able to read people will just make flirting and socializing in general much easier to navigate so it still helps to develop your ability to guess things right.

From there, if she sticks around to talk to you, you can ask questions without making it feel like an interview.

The key is to make sure that as soon as she answers your question you respond to it with statements first before asking another question.

So for example...

You: Hey, you look very touristy. I'm guessing Eastern European.

Her: Haha! Close I'm actually Swedish!

You: (responding to her answer with a statement) Oh, I have a funny story that involves a Swedish girl, ice cream, and some cigarettes. But maybe I'll tell you that later. 😉 (question) How are you liking America so far?

Then just respond with a statement to whatever she says to that before you ask another question and so on and so forth.

atomant88 · 2022-07-29T09:12:05+00:00

im sure this will get removed for being a beginner question. but whoever told you that 'making statements' is a good idea has lost the plot. build a passionate conversation by using probing questions to find her passions. dont interview her. dont seek facts. seek feelings. get her talking about what she loves, what excites her. stimulate her emotionally. control her mood. get your hooks into her.

dont fucking throw out blank statements. what is that supposed to accomplish? making her correct you? not my vibe.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-29T12:23:01+00:00

It’s not just about guessing things about her, which is weird. Nobody goes around trying to guess everything about the other person and it’s not much better than asking tons of questions.

You can say a lot of things without asking questions or making guesses such us:

Sharing funny or interesting personal anecdotes.
Making funny or absurd accusations for fun for example: If she says she is allergic to dogs, you can accuse her of being the world’s biggest dog hater as a joke.
Roasting her / Messing with her / Teasing her
Joking around
Telling her about what happened when you were in x place
Giving your opinions on the things she has said she likes doing, her hobbies, her career, or family situation, etc
Telling her how you feel about things, how you feel about your goals, your friends, your family, your career prospects, your hobbies, your favourite things and relating to her by explaining her how you would feel if you were in her shoes, in whatever situation she has expressed about herself.
Explaining your dreams, your desires, your goals, and how you are planning to achieve them
Flirting with her, expressing what you like about her, what attracts you from her, the things she is making you feel while you speak with her,…

So as you can see it’s not just making absurd guesses all the time, because that’s another way of being in an interview mode. It’s about having a conversation, not an direct or indirect interrogation.

earsurgery9 · 2022-07-29T13:19:05+00:00

this is one of those old piece of PUA advice that people ran with lol.

There's nothing wrong with asking questions . Ever seen Julien from his RSD days? All he did was fire questions at girls. Cold reads arent magical at all. Nothing you read about in a game book is! (and by magical, I mean able to MAKE a girl attracted)

If you open a girl who is into you, don't worry about 'muh statements'. Just talk to her like a normal person. But add some flirting of course (assuming you can tell she's into you). She will contribute just as much as you because she's into you.

If she's NOT into you, then there's jut no point in worry about cold reads and negs and what not. It's not gonna happen with that particular girl. Onto the next

kenjplug · 2022-07-29T19:17:46+00:00

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Title	Tips on making statements?
Author	IncognitoTap
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	July 29, 2022 8:41 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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