You know how girls complain, “I hate how he acts different around his friends/others.” So what to do?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-07-18T01:27:25+00:00

I usually act exactly the same way around attractive women that I do everyone else. This was my big breakthrough to figuring out game, I am an ass by default, I already won,, I can be myself. Only difference is if I feel she is receptive to me,, ill display intent. They will complain regardless, this way I can justify not acting differently and render said complaint invalid, and have something else to neg her about.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-07-18T02:53:03+00:00

Do whats working

Not what they tell u

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-18T03:11:40+00:00

You should always 100% change for women. You should always be what you believe they want you to be without having ever asked them what they want. Just make assumptions. And project. Don't forget to project your male perspective and experiences on them.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-18T01:47:08+00:00

I would tell you, but as a guy I wouldn't want girls to read it.

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-07-18T07:04:02+00:00

If you act differently around her friends than with her it comes off as you're not being "you" to her.

And if she doesn't like the "you" You are with your friends she's not for you.

Imagine if a girl you're dating acted completely different around her friends than with you. Like a different person.

Would you think she's faking her personality for you? Probably

intensely_human · 2022-07-18T01:47:20+00:00

Women are not a good source of information about how to seduce women.

Be who you naturally are, and fuck the haters (literally)

MistyMaisel · 2022-07-18T15:17:34+00:00

When we say that, we're complaining that the guy treats us worse around their friends/others.

Legit, I've had boyfriends that were adoring and respectful turn dismissive and cold and arrogant the moment their friends were around. And when I'd confront them about this, they'd deny it or say they aren't pussy whipped. NO BUENO.

You should be who you are normally, but also have a softer side that's available to your close friends and girlfriend/ anyone you really love. And you should be aware of how people are different. I wouldn't roast my boyfriend the way I roast my best friend. It isn't the same relationship. But, I also wouldn't roast my best friend the way I roast my boyfriend. This isn't inconsistency. It's maturity to recognize the different relationships and needs of different people.

If you're getting negative feedback, it's worth considering just out of wisdom. But that doesn't mean immediately change. You might find that's just one person's opinion. If most women are telling you they don't enjoy how you talk to them, then that could be something to consider. Maybe they aren't enjoying the bro-zone treatment.

Like I always say, if who you are is an asshole, it's not a bad thing to change who you are. This isnt' eye color or how many arms you have. You should improve who you are over time.

Title	You know how girls complain, “I hate how he acts different around his friends/others.” So what to do?
Author	Environmental_Cress2
Upvotes	15
Comments	12
Date	July 18, 2022 1:19 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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