What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?

penis_in_my_hand · 2022-07-04T06:09:41+00:00

Everyone's rating system is different.

For example a lot of guys' rating system for women is 100% looks.

Quite obviously women are more than just human bodies but some men don't see past that.

Not saying this guy is like that but clearly you're prioritizing and valuing things he's not.

merchant_of_mirrors · 2022-07-04T05:02:23+00:00

Rating system has no rules, so it's super subjective. Also men and women look for different qualities in each other. What you are describing sounds like a high value man. But maybe he sees holes in his game that are amplified in his mind even if you're focused on all his good qualities. Honestly though, you're just overthinking it. You find him attractive and that makes him attractive to you. If the feeling is mutual then you're doing good

grindforthegold · 2022-07-04T07:16:50+00:00

just cuz you got to know him through “warm aporoaching” basically and grew to love his traits most women will only judge based on the initial impression and women are very picky at those “cold” scenarios so men’s self esteem drops significantly, for example tinder

he’s internalizing this and giving himself the lowest realistic rating from the eyes of a women in a “cold” scenario

only one of my exes was from tinder, the other two came from life experiences and they saw me the way you see him, hence why i got to date them while i get rejected by girls much less beautiful than them on the regular through “cold” avenues

my ex from tinder was really hot too but that was a fluke tbh lol

jackzander · 2022-07-04T07:21:38+00:00

Rating yourself in a group setting sounds hella weird.

If a 10 exists, they aren't conceited enough to actually rate themselves as 10.

2022-07-04T07:34:51+00:00

I think rating systems are pretty stupid.

For men, it's mostly a binary system.
(A) Would have sex with versus
(B) Would not have sex with.

Most women fall into the (A) category unless they're extremely ugly and/or have nasty/crazy personalities.

Title	What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?
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Date	July 4, 2022 4:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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