I get matches ok and generally will have decent conversation but whenever I ask to meet up I get ghosted.

How do you ask for the first date? My usual go-to is asking if they want to continue the conversation over a coffee.

Is there a rule of when to ask for the date? I find that if I ask too early it's off putting but too late and matches stop responding to messages.

Should I be asking in a specific way? Feel like I'm overthinking it but it's disheartening to have good conversation and then get ghosted when you ask to physically meet up.

Thanks!