I have Hinge, Bumble and Tinder and live in a major US city with tons of hot girls and tourists all year.

Last year I updated my profile and took great pics. I'm a pretty good looking guy and the apps work well for me. However it's starting to feel unhealthy. I find myself not putting effort into the dates. I am constantly looking for the "next date". I feel I am using the apps for fun, like a game, and many women are looking for love. It just feels wrong.

I am starting to feel worn out. I am feeling a little less focused on my business which is not good. Constant messages and new matches distract me. The dates themselves are time consuming and expensive. That is why I think it's time to say goodbye to them. I don't need them. Time to re-charge my mind. Anyone do this?

*I live in Miami, this could also be part of the reason