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AspadaXL · 2022-06-14T12:50:54+00:00

A girl makes thing easy for you when they are sure that they are interested. However, if a guy does not know how to talk to women, it won't work even if a woman is very interested.

One of my ex-girlfriends was a part-time model. When we went on the first date, she was about to flake... Only after I talked to her on the phone, she made up her mind to go out with me. On that day, we had sex, and we had only met for a week. Afterwards, we lived together for a year. Was she hard? It was. But did I get her? Yes.

Another example was my first girlfriend. When we were on the first date, she didn't let me hold her hand, however, after I persisted for a couple of times, she gave in. And, voila, she became my first girlfriend. Fun fact was that she didn't go out with me until I asked her out for the third time. So you never know.

A third case of mine was me dating a super hot girl, who, by my standard, is a solid 9, and if I have the option to marry her, I will definitely take it. I remembered that when I tried to hold her hand on the first date, she was pissed off. I was stunned by that! The woman just walked to a street corner and called a taxi to leave. What a harsh lesson!

Yeah, generally speaking, "finding things" out works. However, women's signals are very important once we have reached intermediate level, because "finding things out" before having a clear clue is a sure way to give your success up to luck. When I was on the first date with my first girlfriend, although she resisted, she was smiling and laughing when I tried to escalate, and it was a subtle sign that I can keep going instead of pulling it back. Nonetheless, on that "9" girl, I probably had missed signals or context information when I tried to escalated, so that I failed.

montanalombardy · 2022-06-14T16:22:16+00:00

1 is false. Women are complex, they give mixed signals and their minds change.

2 is true.

sleepstages · 2022-06-14T20:32:33+00:00

When a girl likes you it's usually obvious. But not always. I had a lady friend who was always friendly but never showed romantic intrest. Well, one night there was a party and we hooked up. She told me she had always been attracted to me. Never noticed. She never even flirted with me.

EthicalSeduction · 2022-06-14T10:42:09+00:00

And remember that they may not yet know if they are into you or not either - which is why you may get some mixed signals at first.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-06-14T17:49:58+00:00

Agreed

Electric_kundalini · 2022-06-14T19:59:22+00:00

I don’t think it’s as black and white as that though. I’ve been to a few house parties and there always seem to be women who totally ignored me. Naturally I wouldn’t approach. When I’ve left they’ve always asked my friend if I’m gay because I didn’t go up and flirt with them. I like Women don’t get me wrong but they can be weird as fuck sometimes.

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