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As weak as this sounds, I want to ask a girl/girls who ignored or ghosted me what’s wrong with me

throwawayforfun1166

June 11, 2022

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Title	As weak as this sounds, I want to ask a girl/girls who ignored or ghosted me what’s wrong with me
Author	throwawayforfun1166
Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	June 11, 2022 3:07 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/v9oebh/as_weak_as_this_sounds_i_want_to_ask_a_girlgirls/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/as-weak-as-this-sounds-i-want-to-ask-a-girlgirls.1257395 https://theredarchive.com/post/1257395

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[–]ftdrain 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[+]throwawayforfun1166[S] -9 points-8 points-7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwawayforfun1166[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]no_not_this 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]nordik1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Took too many Ls compared to Ws for it to just be a regular thing or “part of the game”.

Dude literally everyone has more Ls than Ws because its a numbers game. You sound young, but you will come to realize this. Even the best looking dudes I know with the highest body counts have taken more rejections than successful lays because of the sheer volume of women they deal with, and things happen in streaks. For instance you might get shot down 25 times in a row before suddenly going on a hot streak. Life and women are anything but predictable or linear.

Stop this shit with wanting to know whats wrong with you. Have your boys give you feedback or post convos and some stats/photos about yourself on here and ask for constructive feedback. Some chick will just lie to you because she will sense that you're emotional and she won't want you to get mad or hurt yourself. You gotta man up about some shit in this life and this is one of those things. Ask the homies (as long as they won't bullshit you and actually have your best interest in mind) for feedback, or us.

[–]sixxohhwitaratchet 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

aye bro ask her at your own demise.

but i’m sure many people here can tell you why she’s not fucking with you and we will probably be correct.

you sound needy and clingy.

you are low value and just lame.

and i say this in the kindest way please take these words as a wake up call not as some guy on reddit being rude cause we are all here to grow.

i don’t know you personally and i may be completely wrong but dude.

dude….

if you do anything other than blocking and moving on her then i’m correct.

do some inner work.

she will lie to you…

be nice about it…

and the guy that’s clapping cheeks right now, who may not even like her will laugh at you.

she is not that important for you to have a negative self image of yourself.

you’re a beautiful person and you’re deserving of reciprocated energy.

choose people that choose you.

have some type of respect for yourself.

i’m truly hoping for the best for you.

[–]throwawayforfun1166[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks bro it means a lot. I do try to choose people who choose me but it seems like it’s harder for me to come across them, hence why I said there’s something wrong with me. It’s in general bro, not just with women but in life in general. Never really been given chances, ppl taken me for granted, sucking my energy, or just never seeing my potential or “good enough” to talk and hang. And noticing that my whole life to the point now has affected me a lot and it still happens man. Just recently my “best friend” disappeared and ghosted me 6 months ago and his family forget about me . Lost all my best friends, my ex was fake asf, etc. everyone says I’m good looking, funny, attractive, and I KNOW I am, but I never get the results I want. In the convo I had with the girl I not once projected nerdy or clingy, I tried to do everything right and still an L. And I’m tired of it because I know I deserve better but I’m always coming across ppl who don’t see anything in me. Or maybe I really am a nobody for all these Ls to happen? Idk bro. I been looking for years to see WhTs wrong with me and when I thought I found what it was I changed it, whether it was me standing up for myself or being more social or dressing better or being more confident etc. I’m tired of not feeling good enough when I know I should be valued bro...

[–]sixxohhwitaratchet 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i promise you that your life will change for the better once you make the decision to be who you want. nothing you said here matters.

“life is hard” yeah no shit.

i can just as easily tell you how shitty my life has been. family treats me like shit, best friend tried to have me killed, losing thousands in my business during covid. it happens. your life means something once you make it so.

you are definitely somebody if you weren’t you would’ve never been born.

you have great potential trust me. people have been through worse and became great success in life.

if nobody sees your potential then double down on who you want to be.

sounds simple. it’s not, but you have to do it. you owe your future success nothing but.

it’s 2022 and life will only become more and more shitty but you have to make those choices that will change your life.

i promise you that there’s nothing wrong with you only, the attitude that something is wrong with you.

[–]focus_flow69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's really hard to say what the issue is based on what you post online.

But it's probably one of two things or both.

Your weak mindset and mentality let's people step all over you. They don't respect you because you allow this and they get a thrill out of it knowing they hold something over it. You perceive there to be something wrong with you when there probably isn't, so you act in a way that projects low self confidence.

Your friends and people you interact with are low value people and shitty people. You have to understand if your relationships arent a fuck Yea then its a fuck no. Friends included. Some people will just like you more than others in life, accept it. Those who are neutral or those who you feel don't actually like you, forget about them. They are doing you a favour giving you a heads up by self selecting themselves out of your life. Move on and meet new people until you meet people who actually like you and want to hang out with you.

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