How do I tell her I don’t want anything serious ? we’ve been hanging out around a month

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-06-10T20:40:37+00:00

“I really like spending time with you and would like to continue doing so, but I’m not looking to be in a relationship.”

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-06-10T20:54:26+00:00

You hang out and have fun or don't hang out

Trying to have some serious talk is exactly what you're trying to avoid. It's been a month, I don't think you're going to be hurting anyone

But you're right. If you're going to go all dramatic with some speech then be prepared to not see her anymore after that. But I'd just keep things light and playful. There's no need to get heavy and reinforce needy behaviors.

Let her bring it up later on when you're actually ready to move. Because you can't have it both ways. Say bye or just keep seeing her and having fun

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-10T21:26:08+00:00

I’m just looking to hookup and get off. I’m not looking for a gf right now.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-10T22:59:28+00:00

As long as you don't have to negotiate anything till then don't negotiate anything. If she asks what are we then you can explain what your intentions are, it might hurt her feelings but you're only responsible for your own happiness, you aren't responsible for someone else's emotions, there's nothing that you could do about that so if it hurts it's still not gonna take forever. Life always nice on so it's not that a big deal then it seems at first

DontCallMeTopher · 2022-06-10T23:01:47+00:00

No need to even bring it up lol. Just roll with it until she brings it up or you move

jackzander · 2022-06-10T23:15:39+00:00

I graduate in a semester and will likely be moving

Just tell her that. If she has feelings about it, she'll let you know and you can talk about it then.

No need to overcomplicate things.

focus_flow69 · 2022-06-11T01:27:38+00:00

Hey I'm just trying to be a good guy here and wanna let you know I'm leaving in a month so I can't commit to anything serious. But you are super cool to hang out with and if you like hanging out with me too, we should make sure we have some crazy sex before I leave 😉

Title	How do I tell her I don’t want anything serious ? we’ve been hanging out around a month
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Date	June 10, 2022 8:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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