I’m having trouble getting a second date, even if the first date was a success. I had a girl send me a voice message saying how much fun she had and hopping we would go out again and she’ll pay for it. I didn’t text her after two hours to not look needy and somehow she lost interest.

Even after a one night stands, the girls sound interested in meeting up again. They say something like “when do I get to see you again” or we try to set something up before she leaves then I just say something like “I’ll text you soon to set something up”. Even if I text her the next night like “you free tonight” she doesn’t show the same interest or even reply.

I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. They go from high interest to none. Not sure if I’m sounding too arrogant, then too thirsty? I try to not show too much interest.

Thanks in advance.