A new hobby to meet girls

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-11T05:44:09+00:00

Dancing is your best bet I think

5_7pickup · 2022-05-11T10:46:08+00:00

Dude if you want to meet women then just go meet women. Why are you trying to jump through all these hoops?

You can go to a volunteer event and maybe meet 1-2 attractive girls which will likely take 3-4 hours. Or you can spend 3-4 hours doing cold approach and meet 20-30 girls.

SunDevilElite42 · 2022-05-11T09:03:11+00:00

Dude don’t do a hobby just to meet women. If you want do volunteer work, do it because that’s what you want to do. Do you really want to learn salsa? Or are you just pretending to enjoy it so you can meet women, because in my opinion that’s lame and a waste of your time. Go to a concert go to a bar or club where people go to socialize, be confident and upfront, do not rely on some situation that you think will serendipitously put you in front of an attractive women. Just straight up go up to the women you’re attracted to and introduce yourself be confident, it doesn’t matter where it is, in the line at Starbucks, the grocery store, the park you be in control, don’t rely on a hobby to bring you women, it rarely works.

SteelPWRRanger · 2022-05-11T11:22:00+00:00

Man you’re getting a lot of hate for this. That’s usually a sign you’re going the right way.

I’d be really uncomfortable with taking dance lessons, and that’s why I’d probably force myself. Thanks for inspiring me there.

I was thinking about doing some karaoke, which you could do even if you’re not a good singer, as long as you have fun with it.

And the doing things to meet women… I have no problem with that idea. Ultimately everything boils down to that. As long as you’re not miserable for the sake of women.

Grappleheart · 2022-05-11T11:30:21+00:00

I think you are focusing too much on the goal and not enough on the execution. If your goal is meet more girls you have to focus on building a quality social life. You need a group of friends that have very good networks and who invite you out to events or hangs where you get to meet new people.

Once you build up this social group you can expect to get 3 to 4 high quality leads (girls you can date) a month. Now going to dance class can help you build this but only if you don't become the creepy guy trying to mess around with every girl you see. Girls get put off by this and they talk to eachother. Instead try to build 2 or 3 good friendships that are reciprocal. This means the girls put in effort too. If they don't end it fast. Once you have these two female friends they will likely invite you to events and to hang out. At these hangs you will meet other women who you can now try to mess around with. This way you have a friend you can vouch for you and can communicate directly to you about how you are doing with this girl etc. Women often react more to the guy with female attention than the guy without it, so even bringing your female friend to a bar would lead to more success.

Remember to not get lost in the sauce or forget to constantly maintain your relationships with your female friends or build new ones.

Worldly-Fox7605 · 2022-05-11T13:10:47+00:00

Idk why this is getting the responses it is. Post covid a lot of people had to returned themselves socially and get out there to meet people and potential partners. I joined a coed sports league to meet people. my single girl friends say the same thing. Other options are toastmasters, dance, integral sports, gym classes, cooking classes, musuem events, and volunteering.

Once you are in the same space as these people Hou have to be able to make a move to start engagement. Existing in the same space guarantees nothing.

oldschoolvibes · 2022-05-11T08:13:33+00:00

Daygame

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-11T07:08:13+00:00

The good ol' 'altruism to get laid' sexual strategy.

Take note guys: this is why you should learn game and forgo all the nice guy bullshit.

No offense OP, but right now you don't have much to offer women. Find something you're actually interested in, and do that. If you can't think of anything that involves being outside of your house, that's your bigger problem.

2022-05-11T18:45:01+00:00

Yoga courses - a goldmine

fuzzyandred · 2022-05-11T21:44:12+00:00

Imagine the first day and you get the question, what made you wanna learn (hobby) ? and the only honest response would be saying "to meet girls". If you want a new hobby try something you love doing and let go of the thought of "will I meet the women of my dreams here". Those subconsciously go along even though they will not bring you where you deep inside want to go.

spiderSlayerr · 2022-05-12T05:27:32+00:00

Skateboarding

Title	A new hobby to meet girls
Author	greatlifeahead
Upvotes	10
Comments	26
Date	May 11, 2022 5:22 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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