Anyone who had 0 chemistry with people and found ways to create it

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-05-02T12:26:22+00:00

99% of women aren’t that easy

Huh? Single women go on dates with men who ask them out. That's how it works.

Approach. Flirt. Ask out.

_Broatmeal_ · 2022-05-02T12:44:38+00:00

Chemistry is defined as a complex emotional & physiological interaction between two people. It cannot simply be ‘created’. When it comes around, you’ll know.

Also what are you even asking?

electrisio · 2022-05-02T13:21:00+00:00

I’m working on this too, I’m getting better. Things that you should look at;

Be genuinely interested in the person and what they have to say vs faking it.
Ask questions but don’t make it an interview. For every question they answer you should try and and add your own experience/something that is relevant. Not just hop to the next question.
Ask about their why - their character, their motivations etc etc, not collect facts.
Go deep - childhood, things they may struggle with etc. if you open yourself up they will be more likely to do the same.
Physical escalation is important to build the sexual chemistry as well.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-05-02T12:34:38+00:00

Can you be more specific? What do you mean by chemistry and how do you know you have zero chemistry?

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-05-02T13:02:32+00:00

By working on your social skills

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-05-02T13:09:43+00:00

i'm "decent" looking with a good body and i've been on dates that, from a birds eye view would make you think i could bang all of them and all of a sudden it goes from a visual 100 chemistry to a negative number hahah, like "let me guess you saw a fucking little nose hair that scared you off" hahahaha

MrWolffman · 2022-05-02T13:24:55+00:00

I wonder if this is my issue aswell

Billyjeanisntmylover · 2022-05-02T14:08:13+00:00

I think men are under the impression we can create chemistry but idk if that's the case anymore. I was with a girl ln and she explained chemistry between two people is unexplained and it's based on natural attraction. I guess you can seduce a woman to have sex but she'll eventually leave you for someone she has natural attraction for but hey let's talk about it.

HowToStud · 2022-05-02T15:19:12+00:00

You can’t really create chemistry but you can create attraction.

I value my time and would rather find a girl who has mid to high interest in me than raise a girls interest. However if you do wish to raise a girls interest (a time consuming process) you have to basically charm your way into her pants.

She’s made a perception about you from the first time she saw you. (This is why tattoos are so effective, they portray you’re a bad boy.) You change her perception of you through flirting, eye contact, confident body language and being smooooth. Some girls are a lost cause and just won’t ever change their perception.

If they think you’re hot its much easier, you can say anything and they’ll laugh and flirt. Looks get you in the door, personality does the rest.

atomant88 · 2022-05-02T15:45:19+00:00

dont use incel terminology

Title	Anyone who had 0 chemistry with people and found ways to create it
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Date	May 2, 2022 11:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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