Need some clarification

Contango6969 · 2022-04-22T00:48:42+00:00

Stop talking to her. See if she changes tone or not. You know this is the answer.

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-04-22T01:10:19+00:00

Could be anything. Start with the most common.

1: Has another, more interesting prospect - you should have several prospects as well until she proves she is worth your exclusive time and attention

2: Her attraction for you is dropping - always be watching her attraction level and re calibrate as needed.

3: Her dog died, didn't get a promotion she wanted at work, PMS, general female moodiness and emotional swings

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-04-22T01:21:26+00:00

Don’t force something that isn’t there, man.

Monopoly41 · 2022-04-24T00:36:44+00:00

I actually was too busy all day and did not text her. She texted me around 5 pm and asked pick me up at xxx or reschedule? I took her for drinks and it was very fun actually. We talked , kissed and danced all night.

The lesson: Simply do not force, let it flow.

2022-04-22T03:22:23+00:00

Going for dinner with an online date is just a no-no. Too expensive. Takes too long.
Instead, you have late drinks at a bar/cafe near your place, where you may or may not even get her ONE drink.

That's when you really lay it on thick, conversation wise. Don't stay longer than 30 minutes. Then you make some excuse to go back to your place.

If that routine fails, then she's not going to ride the baloney pony. Just forget her unless she calls you up asking to come over later.

You're in over your head on this one so drop her.

Exmerus · 2022-04-22T05:12:17+00:00

Could be anything. She may have been busy or had a rough day. I mean, if she is still down to go to the date, then everything should be fine. If she wasn’t interested she would have cancelled already.

I would go find out and then just move on if the vibe isn’t there. It’s not a waste of money, it’s a bet. And I see the odds of winning higher than losing.

Erbium-Oxide · 2022-04-22T13:41:01+00:00

Dude. If you’re meeting tomorrow, there’s no point texting. You’re not together or anything, and not significant parts of each other’s lives. Plan dates by text, talk face to face.

profcoper · 2022-04-22T22:05:03+00:00

Dude chill the fuck out you had 1 non sexual date with this girl, you should basically only be texting her for plan arrangements. The fact you feel like this because of ''a dry and late'' text response is a clear sign of insecurity, especially given the fact you were going to have a date that same day.

Ebonic · 2022-04-23T02:31:40+00:00

If you have your own place, just ask her if she wants to go get snacks and watch a movie or smth at your place

Title	Need some clarification
Author	Monopoly41
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	April 22, 2022 12:46 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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