How to keep confidence when dealing with 10s

vroomvroomski · 2022-03-27T16:30:24+00:00

You lucky motherfucker lol

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-27T16:59:39+00:00

There's insecurity. And then there's insecurity about your insecurity. The second one is worse, you have it, and you should address it. That comes down to not shaming yourself for feeling insecure. Rather, own it or at least be okay with it. Be okay with feeling insecure. Be okay with feeling jealous. Just like you are okay with discomfort during a hard workout. You know you'll probably improve and get better at this over time. But don't knock yourself for being where you're at. Feeling insecure in your situation is 100% normal and makes you human.

CurrentBase · 2022-03-27T20:35:31+00:00

I would seriously consider finding a dating-minded therapist who can help you get to the root of these issues.

You can try a lot of tactical advice that will come from this thread and it will likely help to an extent, but until you get to the root issue that is triggering you (IE why you feel like this woman is above you. Why you don't feel worthy to date her. Why it bothers you when other celebrities are hitting on her ETC) you will always have the same or similar problems. Whether it's with her or another girl...

From the sounds of things you have the opportunity to play at a level that 99.99% of guys will never reach, so you should make the most of it. And IMO investing in the right therapist who can help you get to the root of these issues will make your dating life (and your life in general) a lot more enjoyable.

Alarming-Unit-7214 · 2022-03-27T22:15:43+00:00

The answer is pretty straight forward but you just gotta do it - hang out with a lot of 10's until you're used being in their presence and it's not big deal.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-03-27T23:29:07+00:00

Sunshine Man?

Stujitsu2 · 2022-03-29T06:41:13+00:00

Maybe by telling you about celebrities she has rejected is her telling you she likes you. Your assessment could be right just saying.

In any case I can teach you zen. You dont have to be religious. You can also be religious doesn't matter. This is purely mental.

Close your eyes sit up straight. Breathe in and out through the nose. When you breathe in think inhale, when you breathe out think exhale. Inhale-exhale. This will calm you. When other thoughts come return to noting the breath. Then you can start noting emotions. Thoughts of jealousy just label it jealousy-jealousy until it dissipates. Happy-happy. Sadness-sadness. Fear-fear and so on. And return to inhale-exhale as soon as possible. If you are intently focused on noting the breath..in that few seconds you cannot be thinking thoughts of jealousy and so on.

When you note emotions you accept them in a way that doesn't give them power. If you resist them they gain power but likewise if you over indulge them. By noting them you realise emotions come and go and all are impermanent.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2022-03-27T21:52:19+00:00

She squats to take a stinky sxxt just like anyone else, OP. Her snatch bleeds and stinks just like any other chick. She gets intimidated by a very attractive, masculine man just like any other chick...she ain't sxxt special. Plus subtract 3pts from face without fakeup. Yep...nothing special indeed.

Edit: boosting them up is exactly why they're so ego Inflated as it is, I refuse to make that noggin any more blimp like.

dobbs1997 · 2022-03-28T16:35:50+00:00

The fact you mentioned your status and career success & related it to your success with women tells me you somehow rely on it when it comes to dating, instead of your own inner confidence, that’s probably why you’re putting chicks on a pedestal…if you have to try and keep your confidence with a girl who’s a 10 then it means you don’t actually have confidence cause if you did you’d treat ALL women the same and not use this weird 1-10 scale, it’s all in your head, if you find it difficult to get 10’s then that’s a mental thing cause you’re putting them on a pedestal, that’s why you have to TRY getting with them.

Title	How to keep confidence when dealing with 10s
Author	HingaDurgen7
Upvotes	13
Comments	28
Date	March 27, 2022 4:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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