How to avoid getting a reputation in college?

hwillis891 · 2022-03-16T02:24:32+00:00

Honestly dude to get laid consistently you need to let go of trying so hard to ask girls out and just get to know people. I get laid playing it cool and hanging out without any explanation. Don’t just be random, get to know them first. Invest in them first and then suggest a change in location. Let it go organically from there.

You really don’t want to be known as that dude who creeps on all the girls. It’ll make your experience with college worse. Get to know people, men, women, everybody and join social groups. Be chill in those social groups and don’t just hit on every girl, let them come to you. Let your natural humor and joy come out, and some girls will be attracted enough to stay around.

Honestly this seduction stuff isn’t rocket science. But you have to let the girl choose you, not the other way around. Women are very finicky and picky about who they sleep with and why, you’ve got to be that dude that slips under her radar and does it so smooth she doesn’t regret it.

Simple answer: play it cool. The boy runs around trying to get ass from every girl and gets nothing. The player plays it cool, is uniquely himself, comfortable in his own skin, and gets all the girls by proxy.

victorhugogime · 2022-03-16T02:11:05+00:00

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Important-Quote9544 · 2022-03-16T02:58:21+00:00

Just make tons of friends. Eventually you will hear about “rumours” that X girl thinks you cute (granted you are attractive).

Or you can do online dating which is great in college.

Or you show up to frat parties with a group of girls (preselection)

There are many ways to do this but DO NOT cold approach during the day. This will give you the reputation for sure and you will be avoided.

SpecialPowerss · 2022-03-16T07:28:02+00:00

Pick and choose your battles wisely.

jh3kd · 2022-03-16T10:13:33+00:00

You sound like the creepy PUA guy that you’re desperately trying not to be. ‘Never walk around campus without a girl around me’. Cringe.

pua_max · 2022-03-16T02:10:50+00:00

Am working on this right now as a recently graduated dude who just shows up to some college clubs (long story and it’s not my ug). So I feel the urge to not be weird really strongly.

So one tactic is obviously just to be really charismatic in clubs/groups. Had a girl blatantly ask if I was single and she’s scheduling the date. Feels nice to be on the other side.

Other way I’m going is super subtlety. I don’t have it fully worked out, but basically doing really toned down flirting I’d do on a cold approach with girls in the clubs. Then go hey you’re cool let’s do ice cream sometime. Running the line between friend and seducer. Took one girl out last week and have another for tomorrow, but it’s slow. Took a couple of months between warming her up and scheduling. I think secret here is to flirt hard undercover and ask her out on the second meet, but not the first. Waiting longer is suboptimal (as I have done). I especially think this is true because the girl who asked me out above followed that pattern and it felt right. Sometimes women teach you things.

And finally for campus cold approach I have a really high success rate so far (1 lay out of 1 real approach lmao). That one I kinda fumbled through like “uh I think I saw you before blah blah” on the street in campus. Took her out to lunch, then dinner+lay. Not sure if that’s sustainable, so been testing really friendly openers. A recent one was I saw a girl with cool hair and complimented her on it. She was like wow what’s your name. So good reception. But bailed on that one bc I wasn’t super down.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-03-16T02:31:33+00:00

Have you tried being normal? Do you think normal guys who get girls walk around with perpetual erections and think of pickup lines and what to say to get a girl in bed, practice their DHV routines and escalation tactics?

Dude just get in through your thick skull that this shit is not normal. It's weird and creepy. You wanna be the guy girls want? Be fun, go out to enjoy yourself, be a cool person to hang out with. Don't need or want anything from people and they will want and need to be around you. Your needy energy is weird and creepy.

Spiritual-Tourist227 · 2022-03-16T05:34:22+00:00

You can watch the mpmd video but basically try to make friends with girls or keep them as aquintences instead off just ignoring them and moving on, when you find out they are not interested in sex.

cronasminate · 2022-03-16T06:28:05+00:00

That's why you go indirect and don't over approach girls from one campus. I visited sister campuses I haven't visited for a while and go crazy the first few days (got a one day lay doing this) approaching any hot girl within my vicinity and then be a bit more lowkey the rest of the time. Having friends kinda feel nice, but it's not needed. I like walking around campus with friends and chatting and the only thing that happens is some the girls I previously approached keep staring at me when they see me to which I just ignore them. I'm not really the type to have a big cheesy group of friends.

Aim for 5 or more numbers per session. You'll have around 10-15 number in a week to work with. This is how I got regularly got laid 3-5 times per semester when I was in university. It's a lot of work though and a lot of walking. You won't be able to avoid running into them again, but my style makes it less awkward since I can literally talk about anything when I approach and I use body language to hook them or bail. You don't really need to say much. You just show up see if they vibe and bail if they don't. It's really that easy but there is definitely a looks and social skills cut-off. It also tends to wax and wane. Certain days every single girl I approach give me their number and certain days I get one shitty number.

That being said, it's much easier and lower risk to just join a few clubs or something and get laid maybe once per semester like a typical university experience. It really depends on what your skills and your confidence can handle.

Title	How to avoid getting a reputation in college?
Author	victorhugogime
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	March 16, 2022 1:49 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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